Ok, so while we were together today, I mentioned I was going to get a new vehicle today. I told her because I wanted to make sure the insurance was up to snuff. I posted something on social media about hating the negotiation of buying a car. W texted me; "saw your post, how is it going?"
I do not need to respond to this do correct?
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
Well....she asked a question right? If she asks a question respond but keep it short, 2 or 3 words max. Don't respond right away because your in the middle of wheeling and dealing .
I mentioned I was going to get a new vehicle today.
Last year when my W and I separated I traded in my family Silverado for 2016 Fastback GT. Put some 18's on the front and 20's on the back with Black Enkei rims.. That car became a major part of my GAL. Just driving with the windows down and some good music was therapeutic. She still hates that car
Me: 42 W: 47 S: 10 M: Almost 10 in Oct T: 15 1st BD: Feb 2016 Divorce Filed: Mar 2016 Separated: Mar 2016 Reconciled: Oct 2016 2nd BD: Aug 2017
Purchased a new car today...I had to text the W while I was there because she had my car title. I asked her when she will be home tomrw for me to pick it up. She said she didn't know her plans tomrw; but she told me to come pick it up tonight. So after all the dealership crud; I told her I was on my way.
Arrive at her house; she is sitting on the couch talking very calm trying to engage in small talk. I simply told her I was extremely exhausted. She was excited to see the new whip so I let her see it and sit in it. Then we walked back inside and she sat back on the couch. I asked her if she had the title; it was in the table. I grabbed the title and walked to my shoes. I put on my shoes and told her thank you for setting it out and goodbye/goodnight.
On the drive home she called me but I did not answer.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
I have a question about the WAS/WaywardW in general. This might be a question for the vets; but in general or have you heard of the excuse; "the reason I am talking with them is because you are not trying". Or "I talk to the OM about you".
I am just trying to understand a bit more about those topics.
M:30 W:28 T:9 MR:2.5 NoKids Seperation 1: 9/16-12/16 Move back in: 1/17 BD: 8/15 She moved out: 9/1
Loved that update Chris! Don't you feel like you're a baller now? Keep speeding on that empowerment cruiser. You got this bro!
BTW, that excuse about talking to the OM is just outta control. Like outta control in terms of how stupid they think we are. Serious pile of horse and donkey manure. It is so bananas that it's making me laugh right now.
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