So having my D's for a week at a time is impacting my gym GAL activities. The gym is 10 min from my house, they 8 and 6, I also have 2 big 70 lb dogs. Is it acceptable to go to the gym at 5 am when they are sleeping?
I personally wouldn't feel comfortable with them being home alone.
Me-47,XW-43 S13,S16 M:18 BD:4-23-17 W filed:7-17-17 (5 months of in-house separation hell) W moved out:1-6-18 D granted:2-15-18 Decree signed:3-29-18
So having my D's for a week at a time is impacting my gym GAL activities. The gym is 10 min from my house, they 8 and 6, I also have 2 big 70 lb dogs. Is it acceptable to go to the gym at 5 am when they are sleeping? I would be home by the time they woke to get about an hour workout in.
I do that but mine are 12 and 9. I think yours are too young.
So my youngest had a soccer game last night, she scored 3 goals by the way. My W and I sat on the bleachers, they are small so I sat like a row or two behind her. I didn't purposely sit next to her but I was talking to a buddy and I was standing some as well. Not sure if she took notice or not.
When my D's team switched sides of the field I didn't say anything but got up and walked down to the opposite side where my D was playing offense. A few minutes later here comes my W, now she didn't stand right next to me more about 5 ft away or so but she came down none the less. My D scored her 3rd goal and we clapped etc. exchanged a couple of laughs but I thought it was interesting that she came down to where I was.
My D then kicked a girl in the head with the ball and got upset. The coach was comforting her and my W looked at me and indicated she felt bad. I got up and was going to walk out on the field to make sure my D was ok then my W intervened and said let the coach handle it so I sat back down. I thought it was interesting again that my W felt compelled to tell me what to do or that she even thought to say something to me about it.
As always made sure I looked good, acted upbeat, socializing with a couple of buddies etc. cheering on my D all the fun stuff. When the game was over I told my girls to say goodbye to their mom and I started walking away. I don't think I even said good bye to her but my oldest was upset because she wanted to be with her mom and she cried about it on the way home. Not much I could do other than tell her I loved her and that she would see her soon.
I do think my W is taking notice of me I am just not sure if that is translating to anything in her brain.
