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Originally Posted By: Johnnyf
Later that evening she sent me a text asking if I wanted to run to the mall with her. I said sure and we went for about 20 min and I took her back to her apartment and and she told me goodnight. Not sure what that was all about.


Probably missing you and a little bit of a temperature check. WAS's run hot and cold, she'll do something like that and then not text you for a week.

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I ran her by my wife's work for her to see her but I didn't go in, that was tough but it is part of my backing off.


Good call.


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Probably missing you and a little bit of a temperature check. WAS's run hot and cold, she'll do something like that and then not text you for a week.


I was thinking the same thing. Have not heard from her today so we will see. She is going to spend the night tomorrow night before we go out of town together on our first of 2 planned trips. This one on Friday is to celebrate our anniversary that was missed.


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Ok I need some advice. If you have been following my sitch you know that my wife was upset she missed out anniversary. So this weekend we are celebrating it. I got her a card, but I am not sure what to write in it.

So need some help, what should I say?


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Originally Posted By: Johnnyf
I got her a card, but I am not sure what to write in it.


Johnnyf,

I don't know why, but when I read your post, the first thing that popped into my mind was that Jimmy Buffet song, "Why don't we get drunk and screw."

I dare you...

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Originally Posted By: Johnnyf
I got her a card, but I am not sure what to write in it.

So need some help, what should I say?


Try:

Happy Belated smile Anniversary,

-Johnnyf


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Johnny Football......my anniversary is in a month. I don't plan on doing anything. With that said if you feel compelled I wouldn't make it too much or write anything that would be considered as pursuing.


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Originally Posted By: Johnnyf
I got her a card, but I am not sure what to write in it.


Johnnyf,

I don't know why, but when I read your post, the first thing that popped into my mind was that Jimmy Buffet song, "Why don't we get drunk and screw."

I dare you...



LOL. I might do it, but I have a feeling we are going to do that anyway. LOL


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Originally Posted By: Johnnyf
I got her a card, but I am not sure what to write in it.

So need some help, what should I say?


Try:

Happy Belated smile Anniversary,

-Johnnyf



A good idea.


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Originally Posted By: Joseph9
Johnny Football......my anniversary is in a month. I don't plan on doing anything. With that said if you feel compelled I wouldn't make it too much or write anything that would be considered as pursuing.


Well my anniversary was on July 6th. She realized that we missed it about a week later and was really upset. So that is why we are having this weekend.


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OK....well just have non-emotional/detached sex then smile


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