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Re: WAS wanting to move across the world - help
whywhy #2755929 08/10/17 10:00 AM
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Well, looks like my gut feeling was right.

That was a REALLY rough counselling session!

She said clearly in it that she is ready to start divorce proceedings now.

I asked her where the open mind we agreed is as we try this for a few months, she said mind is fine, but heart is closed.

I'm feeling kind of crushed right now!

Should I just stop this and get the D?

Me: 47 Wife: 39
Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs
S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1
BD: 7/4/2017
Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017
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Re: WAS wanting to move across the world - help
whywhy #2755939 08/10/17 11:18 AM
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Should I just stop this and get the D?

Only you can answer that question. Is that what you want?

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Married 14, Together 17
M: 44, W: 43, D: 8, D: 6
M: 46, W: 45. D: 10. D: 8 (CUR)
Bomb Dropped: 5/28/2017
Separation Date: 6/17/2017
Divorce Filed: 2/7/2018
Divorce Final: 4/12/2018
Re: WAS wanting to move across the world - help
TBSakaJ9 #2755990 08/10/17 09:12 PM
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Does SHE have a plan that she has shared with you about the D that she wants?

Me: 53 H:38
T:20 M:14
BD ILYB etc 10/15, H diagnosed severe depression
S 1/16
PA 4/16
H filed 1/17
Re: WAS wanting to move across the world - help
TBSakaJ9 #2756035 08/11/17 02:28 AM
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Hi Joseph9,

No it isn't what I want, but if the end result is already pre-determined, then is it worth all of this pain.

I know that it's only the frustration talking, it's just really rough and I've been feeling so so down!

Me: 47 Wife: 39
Together: 20 yrs Married: 16 yrs
S:9, S:7, D:5, D:1
BD: 7/4/2017
Separation (though living in the same house) 7/20/2017
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Re: WAS wanting to move across the world - help
whywhy #2756076 08/11/17 04:28 AM
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