I have to agree w/Devvo...they really do deserve each other. How can they ever trust each other when they both have been lying and cheating on their spouses. Their house built on sand and lies will eventual cave in. But....that is not your problem.

Cil, I know it hurts and makes you angry when you discover something new...but in this case...he is now her problem and if she thinks he's a prize...well...those rose colored glasses will turn to clear glass as time marches on.

Hang in there! We are all here for you and know what you are feeling and going through.

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Gaslighting or selfish, naive and blind....

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