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V,

I've written a song for you that will turn your life around and you'll be happy and blissful forevermore. The song is "Skinny Dip in the Sink Hole With Me." To be sung to the tune of "Tiptoe Through the Tulips."


Skinny dip in the water
At the sinkhole, that is where I'll be
Come skinny dip through the sinkhole with me

Oh, skinny dip in the water
In the sinkhole next to the willow tree
And skinny dip through the sinkhole with me

Knee deep in the water we'll stray
We'll keep the showers away
And if I miss you in the sink hole, in the moonlight
Will you pardon me?
And skinny dip…

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Hi Lovely V, I'm sorry you're having a rough time Sweetheart. Do be gentle with yourself and take care. Eat soups, have early nights, cosy up until you feel a bit stronger.

Brighter days lie ahead for you and for all of us.

Xxx


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{{{{{{{Darling V}}}}}}}

2016 is a "9" year - a year of completion of a cycle. 2017 is a "1" year - a year of new beginnings.

there's this saying about replacing fear with faith. i hope that thought is one that you can contemplate and will help you.

here's another: there's only one way to go from here: NORTH.
UP.
Positivity.

Decide what you want to get rid of, write it on paper and burn it on new year's eve --- give it to the universe and trust that the Universe will lift that burden from you.

there will always be a seat by the fireplace for you, and a glass of prosecco or a lovely cuppa if you'd prefer, over in my little corner of cyberspace.

xoxoxoxoxo

don't let the bastard grind you down babe.

xoxoxoxo


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A box full of darkness.
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Thank you, Cyberspace is lovely.

Sotto, I agree as always happy New Year.


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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


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New Year and New goals

Here is a selection of my New Year goals:

1. I enjoy my work and every day I have fun by concentrating mind fully and every day I take the following actions

I plan the actions for the following day in my planning diary
I review my day and most evenings (3 out of 5) I journalise
Every day I spend time on my emails and answer them in one period rather than constantly reviewing
I spend some time 3 days out of 5 with each staff member on a work and personal exchange and I listen actively
I make my calls in one batch per day so I am not interrupted daily, this excludes HMRC calls which cost time responding to
I eat wonderful healthy tasty meals at work by preparing in advance
I ensure I relax at work and find humour in impossible situation if necessary by turning these into cartoons
I swear nicely replacing rude words with fart
I take time out to walk for five minutes four times each day and I consider my feelings every three hours at least three out of five days

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I also have fitness and weight goals, they are working so I will keep doing them.

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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


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Irony upon irony


This morning after fighting some serious triggers over Xmas I woke ready to reset the goal clock.

Yesterday I was disappointed that some of my 2016 goals had not been met.

In particular at the end of the year I wanted to be 69 kilos.

After Xmas I weighed myself and I had dropped to 70.5 after sticking at 71.8 for three to four weeks.

This morning my scale weight was 69 kilos exactly.

The body does keep the score!

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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


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Congrats on reaching another one of your goals, V! Happy New year!


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The Giggalo did not exchange Fin information so now I need a court order and FFS I still don't have his address.

I will probably advertise in Italy, heck I may go over there next week.

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Oh lady V, big hugs and lots of love coming to you from over here. I am sorry to hear you have been in a bad place, but congrats on the weight and your goals for the year are amazing. I like the one about taking short walks throughout the day. I think I'm going to borrow that one. smile

May 2017 be a year filled with amazing things coming your way. Have faith!


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