So I said "yep" to the text and then she told me all about what is going on with her at school...the principal wants her to do this and that....blah...I replied "good".
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
Perfect! Now see what happens next.Let this 180 sink in and see what happens.timing is perfect, after a fun night out with friends. You got this!
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Nothing new here, wife texted about some kid in her class that I have on my caseload...I said "thanks" ...then she asked how the first day with kids is going and if I was drinking coffee in my office....blah blah...
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
Crap....wife wants to meet up an talk about our future...I said about what? She said getting the rest of her clothes and some personal items from the house and both of us moving forward. I said are you moving out of the rental? She said probably at the end of the month...I said to where? She said I wanted to meet not talk about this via text....ugh...I know she is probably moving in with the OW....
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
Don't panic! Ok, W wants to talk about the future. This could be a major temperature check. You've been doing such a terrific job on your GAL and 180 that she wants to be sure you are still a viable Plan B. Back off on the questions to her and get back to your DB ways. Her sense of urgency isn't the same as yours, right?
My suggestion is to put off this conversation until you are able to speak with a DB Coach. They are experts in helping you decide what you should and should not ask and what will bring her closer. Please call me at 303-444-7004.
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We did meet yesterday...she said she wants to get the rest of her clothes and a few other things...she said she is planning on moving in with the OW at the end of the month unless something happens...which it won't....I said are you sure this is what you want? I was pretty sure until this week because she said going back to school reminded her of our life and when she got up in the morning she was like missing that....I'm sure she is just feeling guilty...who knows....
I talked to the DB coach this am....she said continue the contact, if she initiates it....she said she has seen more people reconcile when they continue in contact...I guess that is what I will do...
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
So the DB coach said keep communication going. First thing in am was an email from wife asking about my financial planner and she said thanks for meeting me and it was nice to seeing you. I waited a few hours to reply and when I did I said thank u it was nice seeing u 2. And gave her the of the guy. She texted before I replied to the email....just stuff about school.... I kept it brief and we exchanged a few texts. Should I mention when should she get her stuff or wait till she brings it up again?
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
