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ok, my text was my cat is almost out of food asknig if I wanted her to buy some or if I want to handle it (that's legit, i think) something about bills...fishy cus I get the "bill" text on the day I get paid & I get paid next week (my $ still goes in joint acct, for other legal reasons and I still use it) and lastly what day of the week I want D.


Me(W): 29 EXW: 30
T: 6 M: 2
SD: 10
BD: 04/2016
PS: 04/2016
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W filed 03/2017
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If she has the cat why isn't she buying the food? Is it your cat together? The bill thing sounds off....and do you have a set day to see your D? I think the vets say just talk to your S about kids....idk....lol....


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Although my W brought over dog food and dog treats a month ago and told me she would continue to buy them food...LOL...I think now its her trying to ease her guilt.....


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he's my cat but I cant take him until I have my own place (living with a friend now) so I was going over often to clean litter, water the infamous grass, fixing whatever W needed and "hanging out" with W. But we concluded that was cake eating so no more!

That's what we are planning, 2 set days to see D. so far I've got Sunday afternoon - bed time, and I told her I'd pick a convenient day for myself during the week.

Honestly, I don't see how my W will want to R. I don't know what's going on in W's brain but I can't see a solid R. -not trying to be negative, she just has no reason to not want to work on our M. There's no one else...like come on. The only thing is a MLC, she's showed some signs, wanting to "be single" cus she's never been single is extra sketch.

I'm sticking it out obviously but I want to keep a clear head.
I'm enjoying my GAL activities, excited for my half. Though on my run this morning I did get sad (was able to "run" it off though haha) I'm doing this half for me, but who will be at the finish line waiting for me? W was always there for my other races. (took that for granted too)

anyway, having a good day. Will reply to the W while keeping it short and simple.

good day everyone!!!!!


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