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Hey cheesyt, whatever sounds good to you. I just was thinking that if she has to wait and wonder it might make her think you aren't so available. Why not wait a while longer, then reply.
How about "Oh yeah, I'm good... busy." Then ignore her. I hope your texts don't send out that "read" message...


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they absolutely do not send "read" haha. never.

I wasn't sure whether to keep it nice and short. Give any concrete information, keep it closed for conversation or what!

thank you!


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Definitely. Keep it vague. Nice and short. No info. No questions. No, "how are you" back. You're too busy to even care, remember? :-)


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Originally Posted By: cheesyt
so do I just eventually say "i'm good"?


Because I feel that it is vitally important to always tell the truth how about "Busy busy busy"?


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haha, I'm actually pretty good today. she picked a good day to ask. and busy...not so busy.


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sorry to hear you had a rough weekend. But it's good you still tried to get out and do some stuff! It will get easier!

I think they're giving you some pretty good advice on this temp checking situation! Good luck!


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W is at it again, got another text about her school and how I'm no longer needed to watch D for a weekend...

Email last week had said I was not allowed to watch D alone anymore, so a little confused as to why W is letting me know this. W must have forgotten what she wrote when she was angry. go figure.

thanks maybs! right back at you! you're doing great too!!!! proud of us!


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You both are doing great...listen to NYGal...she is very helpful!! Lets do this together...I'm tried of being mrs. nice guy


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Ahhh had a great day. Temp check didn't affect me though for a while I thought it might. Went on a run with some running group. Amazing. Met some amazing nice kind people. As always, had a couple of beers and some dinner. Had a great time, seriously. Can't believe I'm out here living and really enjoying my life without the W. Crazy! I've come a long way!

Yay me. 'Twas a good day and im going to take it!


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question of the day,

talking about important stuff, as in D and bills, animals, those aren't temp checks right?


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