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maybs #2694573 08/04/16 06:46 AM
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How are you ladies this am? I got through day 3 with NC...that's the longest so far.... Did a spin class last night which made me feel great and helped me sleep. smile. I have my second call with my DB coach this am. Hope you guys have a great day!!


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
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EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017

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let me chime in, I'm okay. I'm way too excited for this softball get-together. hahaha


How'd your session go?!

I've had one.

glad to see you're going strong with the NC!


Me(W): 29 EXW: 30
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Hahaha I love softball. I used to play 3rd base smile. My session went good. We talked about my goals and what I want to accomplish until next time. She told me to continue with staying dim and don't initiate contact, which won't be a problem at this point. I also booked a weekend trip back to my home town at the end of August for a pub crawl with my friends!


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I also used to play 3rd base! Glad to hear you are feeling good about staying dim! A pub crawl sounds like so much fun. I spent my day out at the beach and just got back... I'm going to freshen up and go out to meet some old friends and see where the night takes me!

I'm so ready to have a night out with no drama and just fun. I'm wearing a pair of pants I haven't fit into for 6 years (why I even still own them is questionable) but they fit now! and I feel good!!!! I look good and I'm ready!!!!!! In a lot of ways this vacation is not how I want it to be but I'm still glad I came and I'm determined to have some fun.

Hope everyone has a great night!


W:32 M:26
T:5 yrs M: 3 yr
BD: JUN 2016
W Moved out: early JUL 2016
W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
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That is cool you played 3rd! smile My fav!!! Yes it hasn't been as bad today as the first few days.....the pub crawl will be a blast...something to look forward 2!!! MY DB coach was good...she said keep what I am doing...thinks my W has a MLC...great....

Hope you have fun tonight!!! Keep us posted!! :)) Good for you on the weight loss!!!!


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It's called the LBS diet smile


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Yes the LBS diet! smile How was your softball get together?


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Oh no another MLC W... have you read through any of the MLC stuff on here or elsewhere?

Yeah clearno, how was your softball thing?!


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W Filed for D: mid JUL 2016
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softball was good, went to the cages then practiced on field then went to a bar and had food and drinks. girls are nice, most are married, so there's lots of "W" talk, I just keep quiet and hope they don't ask me questions. We talked about setting up a fall team of some sort, hopefully that works out. I'll need it.
Still waiting for the day when I don't wish I were at home with my W instead of doing GAL activities. They all seem to end that way.


Me(W): 29 EXW: 30
T: 6 M: 2
SD: 10
BD: 04/2016
PS: 04/2016
W officially "seeing" someone 09/2016
W filed 03/2017
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Hi girlies....soooo my W texted first thing in the am...its been the longest with NC...she asked if she had any important mail that I needed to give her...she said we could meet for drinks after our first day of school or could she come over this weekend to see the dogs and show me how to clean the pool filters....I said let me think about it....later at the end of the day I said I could use a beer but I don't want to talk about us or anything like that....we met up, spent 2 hours having a few beers, talking about other things besides R....it was nice to just hang out but I have NO hopes of Rec since I am sure the OW still is involved. My DB coach said it is ok to see the W, maybe it would rekindle feelings....IDK what do you guys think??


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017

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