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NYGal #2693252 07/28/16 01:46 PM
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And btw, if you want to see the dogs, I'll let you know when you can come by, because I don't want to see you right now.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
NYGal #2693256 07/28/16 02:04 PM
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I agree NYGal...I know she knows I am waiting in the wings...ok, lets think of a strategy..haha...I have not done a good job of making her miss me so you are right about not hearing about her days.....I'll wait to hear from you to see if that is what I should do...maybe I should do the need time to figure out what choices I need to make....


W:42 M:48
T:9 yrs M:1yr
BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
D: Feb 2017

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Yep, I agree with the dogs...if it works for me then I will let you come by


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I wouldn't know how to let her know without her knowing I read the email...lol...I don't even know when it is.....


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hawker #2693299 07/28/16 06:50 PM
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NYGal, your strategy sounds pretty good.
It sounds like I need to take some notes!

My W temp checked me today. I think. I laugh at that term every time. all of a sudden I got a text "Hey, am I supposed to be watering the lawn?"

tomorrow is a new day. hope everyone made it one more day alright!


Me(W): 29 EXW: 30
T: 6 M: 2
SD: 10
BD: 04/2016
PS: 04/2016
W officially "seeing" someone 09/2016
W filed 03/2017
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Haha ya the texts are so random.


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I used to get the random temp checking texts and phone calls all the time and I must say it gave me great hope.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
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You can always just say you know ow is still in her life and as long as that's the case you need to start making some decisions about your future. And don't be home when she comes to see the dogs. She has to miss you or what's the motivation to come home?


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
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Gotcha NYGal. That sounds perfect!!! Thank u!!


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I have a question while reading other people's sitch...the WW always seem to be mad at the LBS saying that they caused all of this....my W has never blamed me, she says it is all her fault, no one understands, she is so sorry...blah blah....is this just the guilt talking?


W:42 M:48
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BD: Feb 2016
EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016
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