I think she will show some type of disrespect toward you, again. It may come in a different form, but it will happen b/c it's the nature of a WW.
You have told her you will not tolerate disrespect. Be sure you read the thread about the subject of boundaries.......what it means and how it works. You will need to have some type of action based response to her show of disrespect. That means you can't depend on words. Words don't work. Only you can do the action. Your action is to protect your feelings, and to be a consequences for her disrespect.
Your action is never to be an act of physical or verbal aggression. Your temptation will be to explain why you are doing whatever you do.........however, if you start, it kills the effect and opens the door for argument. Enforcing a boundary is not a time to argue.
It is not about what you feel should work in your M. It is about doing the work that gets the right results. Do what works!
WW: Your dad is really annoying me with his FB posts I'm sure they are all directed at me Me: Ok...The most recent posts? WW: There have been 3 He's playing passive aggressive like you...and it is not making me feel any better I think I will always gravitate to who is nice to me...and away from those who are not Me: I understand...Which 3? I can tell you're really upset WW: Actually there are more I will send them to you...I'll do it later....have to work Maybe I'll just delete him Me: I see this is important to you and I value what you have to say WW: Anyone who is negative in my life is not allowed in my life Me: I'd like to know or see what posts and what bothers you the most about them WW: I'll send them to later
WW said today that she is irritated with my "all of a sudden self awareness...doing everything you didn't do before...to better yourself (jogging, eating better, dressing better, Cologne, church, etc)"
