Well we will see...yes she is in a total fog...I will try to be patient...I won't be too available even though I stink at that haha....but I am getting out and doing stuff. Yes, I am on FB and have been sure to post the fun I am having hahaha....plus when school starts she will see me there a few times a week....thanks for the advice!
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
Do you work at the same place? Another parallel if so... All three of us (me, W and ow) work at the same place. It's crazy. Luckily I rarely see ow. The last time I did, I swear, she stopped right outside the window I was facing to carry on a conversation with someone she was walking with. There was NO reason for them to stop right there. I am certain she just wanted to torment me. My hands were shaking for quite some time after that NYGal Smith on FB.
I am so optimistic that you will work things out, I really am.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Well, I travel to several different schools, I go to my W's school twice a week for an hour a day...I have my own class there but if I have a student that goes into her class I check in with her or the other teacher. Yes the OW works at my W's school as well up in the office up front but my W is doing some Admin stuff upfront for 1 period so they see each other....I never have to see the OW so that is fine by me. Yes, we are parallel....we had also gone out with the OW and her W at the time before their A started to a football game...real nice...
I am glad you are optimistic...I am some days and then some days not
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
Yeah, we entertained the ow (I never capitalize that awful nomenclature) at our home, and went out with her after a couple of WBB games. I considered her if not a friend, at least someone I was friendly with. Until she decided to see if she could take my W away! Have you talked to ow's W? Ugghh... it gets so complicated. Would love to share more...
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Ya, I wasn't friends with her either but she hung out a few times....yes until she decided she wanted my W as well...No I have not talked to the OW's W because they got divorced in December....a month later her W and mine began the chatting.....
It is complicated...I would love to hear more!!!
W:42 M:48 T:9 yrs M:1yr BD: Feb 2016 EA Confirmed: Feb 2016/PA July 2016 D: Feb 2017
Oh great, so they are bonding over a troubled marriage. Blech. I'm sorry to hear that ow got divorced. Same for my sitch. ow left her long-term (13 years?) BOYfriend. Then there was all the bonding over how awful their respective partners were... and one thing led to another. Would love to share more details. I've become friends with many of the people who post or posted on here. FB
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Young children can be a tough addition to the mix. Does your W want a child? She sure sounds confused, not at all like she's ready to jump into this thing with ow.
Yes, see what I wrote a few posts ago. I keep looking for the request.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
