Broken, not defeated pt2

[Cherry]

He's started in bed sleeping close almost completely undressed on a regular basis. Sometimes almost touching me. At the start of this he would practically sleep on the edge of the bed, with as many clothes as he possibly could. If he could have made a barrier in the bed he would.

I do not rise to this bait. I don't try and cuddle up to him. I'm business as usual.

Haha grl, credit to you. Compared to my Latina family members I am incredibly patient. I think clothes would be out on the street and many cuss words being used.

While his actions are doing one thing. He still won't speak to me.

Up and at um with baby. Going to have a nice day together. And then I'll put him to bed and leave him with a sitter with a night out planned with a girlfriend.

[Cherry]

So this morning, before going out with baby. I filled in h that I would be out that evening. He kinda nodded. Then said, well I'll be going out too. I said ok, mil said she will look after baby. As I left, h did not look as though he was going anywhere. Hours later upon return I see him sat texting in the car, I ask if he's going out, he doesn't look at me, but shrugs. I say ok enjoy your evening, and go in the house. Not even 5 mins later, he comes straight back into the house.

[DDJ]

Exciting!!!

[Cherry]

Do you think these could be seen a positive signs. Even if he still barely looks or speaks to me?

[Phoebe]

Those do sound like positive baby steps, Cherry. Don't react, just take note.

[JksD]

^^ what phoebe said.

Stay on course, don't let your h sway. Db; act as if, 180s, GAL and monitor what works.

Cautious optimism.

[DDJ]

You're changing Cherry, you're coming around, he is noticing that so keep getting that confidence up. That's all that you need to do.

[GWH]

Do you think these could be seen a positive signs. Even if he still barely looks or speaks to me?

No expectations Cherry, but do take note!

[Cherry]

Thanks guys. I don't have any expectations. He is still silent with me and won't look at me. We don't exchange any words in the day.

I'm just going to continue with my business, and stay in the mindset I've been in. It certainly helps my pma not to expect anything of him.

[Phoebe]

You are doing great, Cherry. Your ability to carry on every day while seeing H is incredible.