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Re: Broken, not defeated pt2 JksD #2671103 04/23/16 09:31 AM
Joined: Jan 2016 Posts: 1,081 MA P Phoebe Member
Phoebe Member P Joined: Jan 2016 Posts: 1,081 MA	Yeah for you, Cherry!!! I'm so glad to see that you're doing well on your trip. You have inspired me to get out today! H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16

Re: Broken, not defeated pt2 Cherry #2671109 04/23/16 10:09 AM
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SH_ Member S Joined: Mar 2016 Posts: 1,732	It is exciting to hear that you are having a great time. That sounds exactly what GAL is all about. Keep on keeping on and make some great new memories that you will look back on and make you smile. Me 46 Former W 46 D19 D7 BD Feb 2016 WAW moves out 4/16/16 D final 6/1/2017 It's time for me to start changin' the way I look at the world......and at myself. ~James Howlett aka Wolverine

Re: Broken, not defeated pt2 SH_ #2671152 04/23/16 12:58 PM
Joined: Mar 2015 Posts: 1,746 C Cherry OP Member
OP Cherry Member C Joined: Mar 2015 Posts: 1,746	Phoebe I'm so glad I've inspired you to do that. I've made lots of new memories with my bestest girlfriend. And I know that I'm going to be ok. I just hope this relaxed me comes home too! Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16

Re: Broken, not defeated pt2 Cherry #2671166 04/23/16 02:22 PM
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GWH Member G Joined: Mar 2016 Posts: 234 Pa	Cherry, It's so great to hear your having a good time. Enjoy it!

Re: Broken, not defeated pt2 GWH #2671293 04/24/16 08:06 AM
Joined: Mar 2015 Posts: 1,746 C Cherry OP Member
OP Cherry Member C Joined: Mar 2015 Posts: 1,746	Thank you all for your kind words and encouragement. On my way home now. I have had the greatest time. I have made a lot of new memories and although at times I have been plagued by a little sadness, it did ease. I had my mini breakdown and balled like a baby. But after that I seized every opportunity to enjoy myself. I have shopped like no tomorrow. Met great people, had my ego boosted by a lot of men. But most importantly I've actually had fun and realised life does go on. I think I've accepted that the person I have married has long gone. It's like it was a different person. And the person he is right now- I don't want that. I want someone who appreciates me for me. I feel quite relaxed and contented, I hope this feeling stays. I've even got my appetite back! Ive been dark from h, he hasn't contacted me, and I resisted contacting him. Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16

Re: Broken, not defeated pt2 Cherry #2671324 04/24/16 11:32 AM
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Phoebe Member P Joined: Jan 2016 Posts: 1,081 MA	Wow, Cherry, that is a lot of progress. You sound like you are in a much better place now. Those new memories and good feelings that you've had over the last few days will be a resource for you to tap back into when things are difficult. I hope that the rest of your trip home is enjoyable and that you get some good sleep at home. H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16

Re: Broken, not defeated pt2 Phoebe #2671508 04/25/16 06:27 AM
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JksD Member J Joined: Sep 2015 Posts: 1,965 twilight zone	Go, Cherry, go! Douse yourself in your Paris PMA. Intrigue your H with this new scent. You can call me Dory/ Grl. As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!" It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.

Re: Broken, not defeated pt2 JksD #2671527 04/25/16 07:30 AM
Joined: Mar 2015 Posts: 1,746 C Cherry OP Member
OP Cherry Member C Joined: Mar 2015 Posts: 1,746	Well I'm home and he said nothing. No ask of how the trip was but you know I didn't expect it. So it doesn't bother me. He hasn't spoken, but he had done all the house work I usually do so I didn't have too. And he has followed me in rooms even to sit watching Tv. In feeling better and keep getting told I look "glowing" Me 26 H 25 M 4 T 5 Baby born 4/14 BD: 1/15 EA: 2/15 PA: 4/15 reconciling: 4/15 ILYBINILWY- 11/15 ILY-1/16 ILYBNILWY 4/16 ILY 6/16 ILYBINILWY 6/16 Baby due 3/17 BD 8/16

Re: Broken, not defeated pt2 Cherry #2671728 04/25/16 05:37 PM
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JksD Member J Joined: Sep 2015 Posts: 1,965 twilight zone	Sounds like small positive steps. Did you affirm H for he has done? You can call me Dory/ Grl. As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!" It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.

Re: Broken, not defeated pt2 JksD #2671730 04/25/16 05:41 PM
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JksD Member J Joined: Sep 2015 Posts: 1,965 twilight zone	Did you say that H's ll is acts of service? If so, he is showing you that he cares in his ll. You can call me Dory/ Grl. As a wise fish once sang,"Just keep swimming!" It's no use to go back to yesterday because I was a different person then.

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