Those sound like very positive things, Thornton. Whatever you're doing, it seems to be getting her attention in a good way. Bask in the sun while it shines, and don't push when it's behind a cloud.
Baby steps. Baby steps.
H: 44, Me: 45 Married: 20 y Together: 25 y no kids Walk away: 12/15 Asked for temp separation 12/25/15 PA confirmed 3/16 (apparently neither the first, nor the last PA he has had) H filed for D 5/16
Good signs but only signs. Hold steady I would advise.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
Well I got the long awaited text over the weekend. She wants to meet for coffee. It's been almost exactly 3 months since Ive seen her. Her texts were filled with smiley, winking, and goofy face emoticons.
We will be getting together after work later this week. Keep you all posted.
Don't be available the first evening she suggests or have something cone up and push it an hour or to the next evening.
You have been patient and waited a long time for this. Don't come across as being too eager to meet.You have a good busy life going on. This is not about playing games but more so to be less predictable.
I hope for you that it is for a good reason she is meeting you. But you know to keep a reign on those expectations.
Best wishes and yes do keep us in the loop.
R 25 years M 14 years S11 & S13 Working on it alone since Oct 2014 M in trouble a lot earlier (~2 years) Feb 2016. 1st R chat in a yr. Next R chat Aug'17 Still together
