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M:45 H:48
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BD:Sept'15
EA:Confirmed 1wk later
PA: Oct'15
12 '15 2 wk R
Just kidding, H wants NC
12 '15 H back w/OW
4 '15 R &still working on it
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What's new, MB?


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
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Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
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Hi MB, how are you?

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MB, what's new?


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
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MB. I hope your doing well. I miss seeing you here. Hope you come back soon smile


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Just stopping by to say hi, MB! Hope you are doing well!


Me: 43, Him: 40
Married: 21 years

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Hello everyone, MB asked me to update you on her situation and ask for some advice. Yesterday her son was involved in an accident (he's going to be okay). MB texted H and said, "I realize you care nothing about me, you have made that very clear. I thought you might want to know that S (H's stepson) was in an accident and hit by a bus. Really sorry I bothered you!"

H did not respond, and did not answer calls from MB. She did not leave a message, and has not heard back from him at all.
What do you think, should she call again or not? What should she say if she does call?

MB thinks H may be angry because she spoke honestly to OW when OW came by her house a couple of weeks ago.

MB has been with her son in the hospital for most of the last 24 hours. She could sure use some support.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
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Send her virtual hugs from me!!!

I don't think calling is going to do any good. He'll have gotten the message.
Are any In-laws involved at all? Grandparents may want to know that their grandson is in the hospital, and they can apply some outside pressure.

I will say, her message was a tad passive aggressive. I know she's scared and hurting. I would just caution her in the future to just keep things less heated (I just wanted to let you know that S was in an accidnet yesterday and is in the hospital. He would like to see you (if that's true). He's at such and such hospital. the number is such and such)


M:26 H:32 T:8yrs
ILYBNILWY/ "I'm not happy": 2/6/16
D-Day-discovered PA/EA: 2/10/16
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I agree the message prob drove him off. Even if he still should contact the son. The message didn't need that.


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He's the stepdad, so that's a little different I guess.


11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker
Reconciling since late April 2016
Don't give up until it's time, then move on
Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
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