V is for Vanilla 27

[mutatio]

Just a drive by hug, see ya

[Vanilla]

Waving to ya as ya pass....

V

[Vanilla]

Today I paid the fee to have WH tracked down by the courts to be served by court bailiffs.

He tells my L he is living abroad, and I think he is in the UK, his car was seen by my cleaner outside the house. Bestie has seen him on a different day in the village.

I want to be free to get on with my life.

This is passive aggressive control, I hope his last horrah!

Still working on my Fins, yet one more day to see if I can clean up the entries WH made in the system so I can file the accounts and do my VAT return.

It is very hard work and wasteful of that resource.

V

[Vanilla]

still not progressing very much although at least I filed the VAT return and reconciled the Debtors ledger.

Couldn't access the one bank account with cash in it.

No exercise and horrible week. Clients all complaining work isn't done, I just cant catch up.

Very very low today and struggling with my motivation.

Many tears, must be self pity.

v

[JujuB]

Vanilla

I know this is challenging times, but you have certainly taken control of the situation. I would truly not want to be your WH.

You are highly intelligent, level headed, Determined, motivated, and patient.
Just take it day by day and allow yourself a day of rest.

I talk about how if I was a character in a book I would be yelling at myself. But you are the heroine in the book that we all admire and respect.

No need for self pity... You Have so much going for you. Remember that.

(((Hugs)))

Julie

[PigPen]

Sending you oodles and oodles of love Lady V!!!

I'll fly across the pond and track down that no good WH for you. I'll only ask for dinner as payment.

Keep your chin up Lady V, you've already walked a thousand miles towards your own healing and betterment, this is just the final stretch.

Great big American hug,
PP

[rd500]

Hi Lady V. So sorry your down. You have a mountain to climb re work and your getting there.

It's not self pity , your faced with a huge task and it' would daunt anyone You faced a AHole of a H and suffered for a long time. No one would just get over this AND deal with a sabotaged business at the same time. Cut yourself some slack and know that many people would never get to this point , let alone get past it


Your a force of nature and a wonderful person , give yourself time.

Please post often for a while so we can offer the support you deserve

I'll meet PP at Gatwick and have a quick chat with H !!!!!!

Huge hugs , Rd

[Vanilla]

Thank you RD and PP for your support.

JB, welcome to Vs thread.

WH is behaving in a more curious fashion than usual, playing stupid games.

I filed which he has not acknowledged so I asked for a bailiffs petition serve, he then did a bunk and that hasn't been successful.

He then cross filed which I acknowledged and it either got lost in the post or mislaid, the court advised me not acknowledged so I acknowledged it. WH then decides to apply for dispense with service (I knew nothing about it) and ex parte decision made that my acknowledgement in Dec was a deemed service.

So WH foot shot in your own. Please rearrange these words into correct order.

Aren't our judges wonderful!

V

[JujuB]

Vanilla, hoping justice prevails for you and soon so you can stop dealing with these games.

No need to welcome me. I have been keeping up with you for a while. You have helped me a lot as julie. (Just wanted to be safe)

[Vanilla]

Vanilla, hoping justice prevails for you and soon so you can stop dealing with these games.

No need to welcome me. I have been keeping up with you for a while. You have helped me a lot as julie. (Just wanted to be safe)

Gotcha

V