11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
I thought of another way to connect. It involves that rental.
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Take that rental. Write it down. Don't repeat any letters. First letter is zero then 1, 2, 3. Then I spell my phone number. Too obvious?
11/4/15 W revealed EA/2 months later became PA with co-worker Reconciling since late April 2016 Don't give up until it's time, then move on Be patient, strong and kind but never a doormat
Hi Rain, just been catching up on your thread. Phew! Your XF really knows how to do crazy! It is so cruel how they mess with our heads blowing hot and cold. You are handling things brilliantly with him and then venting on here. I agree with the others about him having met someone. I think he wasn't getting a reaction with his 'crazy' texting when he was out and maybe it was a 180 for you to not react and be all conciliatory in reply so that made him have to up the stakes a notch and try something else - making you jealous. Crazy! I don't know how you keep doing this, you are one strong lady!
M:45 H:48 M:11 No kids BD:Sept'15 EA:Confirmed 1wk later PA: Oct'15 12 '15 2 wk R Just kidding, H wants NC 12 '15 H back w/OW 4 '15 R &still working on it
Thanks. My STBXH has been having his A secretly for 2 years and now it has been in the open for 1 year, and I still don't see any change from him. I'll carry on BD and I'll see what my options are when he files!
Yes...XF is not only on the crazy train. He is the conductor. I have to get rid of the stupid app though. I do not check on him per se, but when I go to read his texts it quickly (like a split second) says XF was on 2 hours ago or 24 minutes ago then immediately switches to "on right now". So when it wasn't me 2 hours ago then I feel that gross gut feeling.
Or ugh yesterday when I was in the shower and in 20 minutes I had missed 4 calls. My mom called me though and we were on for a good long while. I go back to return his video call which should have said however long ago...but nope. He was on it. And It's getting harder not to say it.
I've "innocently" lol...asked. What are you up to? And he lies. He will say he just woke up or he was in the shower and so far I am able to just say "okay" and move on. But it won't be for long.
I know you're doing it, you've admitted it, so why lie now?! But I think he was being"honest" that time because he wanted me to tell him who I was using it for. Now he is back to dishonesty. Great. Fantastic. Ugh.
hmmmm which one to use....lol