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That sounds like a good plan, Rain. My goal is to stay busy until I can meet my divorce group friends at 5:30!!


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Hey NYG.....the boundaries kind of came organically since he was pretty upfront about what he is willing and not willing to do and give if we R.

And yeah, kind of strange that finding peace with our situations and moving on is our best shot at R with them. But at that point will we want to?

The answer to that scares me.

And thanks....now all I have to do is decide on those goals and all the steps to get to them. Easy breezy. smile

I hope you had a nice coffee group and also that you guys have a great time tonight. It's good to have that support in real life too.

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The support here feels like real life. Now if you would just get on FB...


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Thanks Rain. The only thing STBXH told me was that he respected me as the mother of his children, no mentioned of love! I guess I can't make someone who doesn't love, loves me!

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You can't believe anything they say... or don't say!


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Originally Posted By: Rouky
Thanks Rain. The only thing STBXH told me was that he respected me as the mother of his children, no mentioned of love! I guess I can't make someone who doesn't love, loves me!


((((Rouky))))

Hey if you want...I can go have a nice little "talk" with your H. But truly NYGal is right. You just can't believe anything they say, especially in the fog. And the fog lasts different amounts of time for different people.

Wouldn't it be nice if it was a set time? Hey DBers don't worry just GAL and live a great life as your walk away or wayward spouse will be back in full remorse mode ready to create a deeper and more meaningful R is 18 months 3 weeks and 1 day. wink

When I look back from the start of PA to now I have been on this rollercoaster for almost 2 years and 3 months. And NOW is when I am hearing things I longed to hear. And even still his actions are not so much matching those words.

So like I said before, if my situation is any indication of how things phase in and out and you Rouky, want to move on while standing for a while longer, your Hs A is likely to fizzle and he just may find his way home.

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Originally Posted By: NYGal
The support here feels like real life. Now if you would just get on FB...


LOL I know....okay here's the deal. If I do I will let cha know. And I will be using my alias here on there as well. Just need a cool last name. smile

And tell it NYGal...seriously I don't even want to think about where I would be without all of you.

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NYGal you are hilarious! I almost peed my pants!!!

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