It can be difficult to figure out what to do without the little peeps, ay? I will probably sound hokey, however, in the last year or so I find that I sometimes we can find pleasure in the small things. Looking at the sky, soaking in the sun, singing in the car or shower. I realize that may sound silly to some. Sometimes I believe we miss out on some of the little pleasures and they can relax us as well.
Hope the week goes well. It gets better:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
I actually had a nice day in the end, went for a Coffee and a walk and then visited my dad. It is so hard! I miss my husband, I know I need to be strong and keep going but I do, I miss him so much 😭😭😭😩
Me 35 H 38 Married 4 years together 13 years Affair started sept 2015 BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night son age 3 daughter age 1
Do you think it's possible for a marriage to be saved after someone walks out for somebody else? Obviously we're not anywhere near that point right now but even if he did try to come back, how the hell would you trust him again?
Me 35 H 38 Married 4 years together 13 years Affair started sept 2015 BD 15th Nov 2015- husband left that night son age 3 daughter age 1
You would have to decide to trust - to a degree. I don't know if you can ever trust completely again, but maybe that's a good thing - it keeps you aware of what's going on in the M. Neglect and taking your spouse for granted contributes to the breakdown to begin with.
M 16 yrs, WH62, P54 3 adult blended kids EA 11/13, BD1 6/14 PA fall 14, BD2 2/15 Piecing 2015, BD3 12/15 Separated 4/16 WH moved OW in 5/16 Divorced 6/15/17
Yes wish him a Happy Birthday like a friend but not a H.
Bec - just so you know some UK posters, me , NDY, Huddy, Sotto, Atpeace, Rd500 (Ireland).
Also put some details on your signature. How long married, age of kids etc.
Click Your stuff, Edit Profile , scroll to bottom and add.
Also if you post on others threads you will get more people posting on yours - a lot more. Even if you feel too 'new' to contribute, empathy and sympathy goes a long way.
I'll keep my eye on track posts x
Me49 W45 T15 M13 S11 S8 BD 11/15/11 & 3/27/12 Moved out 4/9/12 Moved back 4/23/12 W working on US 5/20/12 Now Piecing! May-Oct14 drifting Dec 14 W agrees to more QT BD Oct15 ILYBINILWY W filed 1/25/16
