You're right, technically since we weren't remarried he wasn't cheating on me but we had a relationship and a family just not the marriage license. It still feels exactly the same and the hurt and betrayal is the same and the fact I want my family back together is the same. I would lie to remarry him someday for financial reasons we didn't before. As for last nt I didn't break down and text him or call which is good for me.
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
And we did promise to be exclusive. For sure it was monogamous for years.
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
It is taking extreme willpower not to call him, that's all I want to do! Uuuggghhh
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
Still waiting for a call just so I can ignore it. It makes it worse that he doesn't and he isn't even thinking of me. Trying to make a go of it with her I suppose!
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
Tamjakr You need to breathe. I know where you are, heck we all do. I also know the feeling of checking your thread every minute to hope for a response that will give us some great insight to fix everything.
That is not going to happen, at least not in the way you want it to. The answers are coming through here, but you are not seeing them right now.
My advice right now is to search for a poster named Mozza. find his thread and you will see a bunch of links to other threads that can tell some good stories and you will learn a lot. It may take some digging to get all the way to the beginning of the stories, but well worth it. Some are success stories but if you pay attention to the length of time and the stages these people went through it will help calm you down.
best of luck
M 37 W 34
T 12 M 8 D 7 S 4
Need break 4/12/15 W no ring 7/7/15
Separate room 4/12/15 Separate living suggested 8/15 W moved out 11/1/15
My advice right now is to search for a poster named Mozza. find his thread and you will see a bunch of links to other threads that can tell some good stories and you will learn a lot.
If you read all the links in my homework post you will find the resources thread, within the resources are a link to Mozza's thread.
I can't find what how to look for Mozza or homework
T-20 yrs M- 7yrs Me-46 XH- 44 S15, S21 1yr separation and divorce, my decision-07 1yr separation, my decision-2012 His PA started Aug 2016 I moved out Sept/16 He's been with OW ever since
