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Thank you Ancaire. I really appreciate your welcome.


Me: 48, XH: 42
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Thank you for your kind words Shotgun. We get a lot is support here as people are going through the same pain as us. What are you plans for this weekend?

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A huge hug and welcome to focuss22. I hope you feel the love here. A love that has kept my head above water for a long while now. Fill us in on your situation!

Rouky I have S13 tonight and just a jab at your husband, I am not watching him, I am living with him! Tonight my family is partially intact in that my son is under my roof where I can protect and nurture him. Going to hopefully play some music and then go out for supper. I'm working on a plan for tomorrow night as I will be alone and need to get out. Any chance of you flying to the US this weekend? What are your plans? You must have a ton of fun things to do. Are you near a major city? Small town here and kind of limited but I'm going to make something happen. Maybe we can talk Ancaire and focuss22 and JulieH and Avanti and maybe some others into hitting a pub! Who is with me?


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Doesn't a night out with fellow DB'ers sound like heaven? I'm ready to go!!! I'm in Texas, USA...am I crossing any water to get to the pub? What country will everyone be in tonight?


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

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I think that we should meet in a central location. Hmmm are there any good pubs in Iceland?


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A divorce busters convention! That would be awesome!


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A divorce busters convention would be CRAZY!


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A huge hug and welcome to focuss22. I hope you feel the love here. A love that has kept my head above water for a long while now. Fill us in on your situation!


Thank you shotgun! My first thread is here:
http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2623656&page=1

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Maybe we can talk Ancaire and focuss22 and JulieH and Avanti and maybe some others into hitting a pub! Who is with me?


A night out?! I'm up for that *dusts off party shoes*


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That would be fab! Can't wait for it. Shotgun did you bake those cookies with your son? How is he copying with all this?

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Rouky I couldn't get him to make the cookies for me. He really struggles when it is time to go with the other parent. He drags his feet and always wants to make us wait. I think it is his way of voicing his displeasure with his parents. So far his grades are holding up and he has really gotten into his music. He lived a very charmed life before the separation. I used to call him Little Alexi (Romanov) because his mom and grandmother would fret over him anytime he would get a bump. He has lived a life of leisure and travel and will likely get to continue this with his mother. My job is to make sure that he is grounded by taking camping, shooting, fishing and playing music around the campfire. How are your children coping? Are they in school yet? I pray that they are OK. My wife was severely damaged by her parents divorce. I am hoping to do it better than her parents did.


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