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Rouky, take comfort where you find it. A teddy bear is a thousand times better than getting involved with someone else, and pulling them into this mess!

I'm actually pretty jealous that you even have your childhood teddy bear. Lucky woman!


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O, if I could knock some sense into him for you I would. You know you are not alone in your pain. Go and hug those beautiful children of yours and find some peace and comfort tonight. Be strong. You have survived one more day of this, one day closer to your next stage of life, whatever that may be- reconciliation, a new life, whatever.



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O-thinking about you. How are you doing playing pretend?


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
BD: 08/2015 - D filed & OW disc: 09/2015

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I kiss my kids too.. awww how cute.. I snuggle to his shirts. smirk


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It's working so far. But some days are harder then the other. Thanks for checking in. .. how are you doing??


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I know you would... lol... thanks for always checking in on me. Huggss


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We all are bound to have good and bad days. I remember reading here one step forward, two step backwards but as long as we keep the stearing wheel in line with your goal you'll be fine.

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A friend of mine said something to me tonight and it's bothering me. She said once a cheater always a cheater. True or false? D.r. says false. But what's your opinion? ?


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It depends on the cheater, really.

Some people jump from R to R throughout life. Some start that way and then settle down. Others are content with the person they love.

I firmly believe that just because a person might cheat once, it doesn't mean they'll do it again. Why did they cheat? That's the question to answer in order to determine if it may happen again.


Me: 48 H: 50 - Married 21 - 3-S: 29,19,19 2-D: 27,26
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Well my h never really had any relationships maybe a few but nothing serious until he came to America. We were 22 23 when we met and married at 24 25.. and been together for 12 yrs total... my h has never been the cheating type. Always the honest person. Always felt bad for divorced families especially with kids. He had a reallllly soft heart. Dear lord what happened to my sweet caring loving husband... ughhhh


Me 34 H 33
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BD Jan 2015 EA/PA
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