Too much wrong now to do it right

[Cadet]

I read somewhere, maybe here, that every spouse can make a claim of emotional abuse in some way or another if they try hard enough.

I agree, and based on what Ghost has written, I have the impression that his W has claimed abuse whenever she didn't like the way things went. And, b/c his W says it, then Ghost automatically agrees that it must be true!

I have the impression that his W has claimed abuse whenever he opened his mouth.

Best to maybe now keep it shut.

I agree with Sandi2.

[ILYNOT]

It probably will get bitter, expect the worst but prepare yourself, journal all the times she went out, left you as the good parent, finances , cc charges, etc.!

Drop the rope, the only way they will realize what they have lost is after they have lost it.

[NDY]

She had said that she would give me 50/50 custody and only want half the value of the house does anyone know if she has the right to even say this is it her decision how much access I get and how much of the house she gets

What, wait. She's GRANTING you this? Man, that's a pretty high horse she's on. Mate, she doesn't call the shots. Get a L.

[Vapo]

Dude,

you said you TALKED to a friggin lawyer. What did you discuss, weather?

Kids and equity, that are the 2 main aspects. This requires a do over. Make a list of questions and write it here on the boards and we will help you finalize it before you talk to a lawyer again.

And FOR THE LOVE OF GOD, DO NOT SNOOP ANYMORE. You see how it got you spinning?

[NDY]

^^ what Vapo said. + 10.
G. The laws between Scotland and England are not that different.

I read on here by one of the greats, I can't remember which one but I wish I did and they said "take your balls back from your W's handbag. She's a paper tigress"' or words to those affect. Worked for me.