Omg V I saw a clip he recorded her.. I was shaking I was so scared... I feel so bad for her. She needs serious help.... ugh I need to pray for her... she is gonna kill her self by overdosing. She's taking a few Xanax and drinking vodka on top of it... I don't know. I don't know how ppl do drugs. I'm terrified... she was eating candy and crap off the floor. Ewww. She was a disaster! !!!! OMG.. I WANT TO CRY FOR HER. I pray my h doesn't get back with her. Idk tho... well all I can do is just pray. .. and continue doing me...
Me 34 H 33 Married 2006 S5 D2 BD Jan 2015 EA/PA He moved out 2/2/2015 Came back 5/2015 Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015
OW does not care about a trifling thing like someone else's marriage! I told my H one day he needed to thank me, because my "blackmailing" probably saved his behind. I told him NO SANE WOMAN with any kind of self worth dates a married man. I said I wouldn't touch one with a ten-foot pole. What if he is lying? To which H helpfully replied that he was accused of that. Blech!
On the other hand, I'm wondering WTF your H is doing showing you videos like that of his OW? Not very honorable, for sure. Keeping you on his side for cake-eating? I'm not sure, but warning signals flared when I read that bit. Be careful, please.
she doesnt care! she broke her parents up. when her and my h were broken up for a few days he found out she was sending naked pictures of her self to another married man with 2 kids. wtf is wrong with my h. he is so blind. wow...
Judy, im not getting involved anymore. not until hes ready to fix us. i had my fun and now no more cake eating. screw that. im not a whore. even tho technically were still married but still. im not gonna disrespect myself like that. yes i admit we were till recent but i have completely stopped and have pulled my self back, like way back... by the way he was at my parents house for like 4 hrs today hanging out with my parents... ugh... not gonna let it get to me... im not...im strong... detach linda, detach!!!!!!!!!!!
Me 34 H 33 Married 2006 S5 D2 BD Jan 2015 EA/PA He moved out 2/2/2015 Came back 5/2015 Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015
O, your H sounds like he's going through the confusion of MLC. I'm not diagnosing him, by any means, but I've done a lot of reading about it for my sitch. A grown man suddenly starts behaving like a teenager, while giving out mixed signals because he doesn't know what he wants.
Hanging out with your parents like nothing is wrong? That is bizarre. Have you done any reading on Midlife Crisis? It's depressing stuff, based on how long it takes them to get over it which could be years!
I'm so happy to learn you're detaching and removing the cake-eating option. I'm really proud of you!
I have done no reading besides the dr. What books should I look for... ya I think deep down he doesn't want this divorce. But then again who knows what he wants rreally.im yrs.. damnnn.. how long am I gonna fight lollll....
Me 34 H 33 Married 2006 S5 D2 BD Jan 2015 EA/PA He moved out 2/2/2015 Came back 5/2015 Filed divorce papers 8/21/2015
O, you have to stay strong, or you will end up right back in the same place you've been. This is your chance to get it right. Be strong, let H deal with his own issues and grow up and either be the man you need him to be or else then you will know he is not.
To bring this kind of vile person into his life, to put you and your children second to this, there is something wrong with him and it is not you. I am so glad you have your head in the right place. Stay strong.
Omg V I saw a clip he recorded her.. I was shaking I was so scared... I feel so bad for her. She needs serious help.... ugh I need to pray for her... she is gonna kill her self by overdosing. She's taking a few Xanax and drinking vodka on top of it... I don't know. I don't know how ppl do drugs. I'm terrified... she was eating candy and crap off the floor. Ewww. She was a disaster! !!!! OMG.. I WANT TO CRY FOR HER. I pray my h doesn't get back with her. Idk tho... well all I can do is just pray. .. and continue doing me...
Please ensure you get a copy. Your kids need protection from this demented soul.
Be safe, very safe.
V
Last edited by Vanilla; 10/13/1504:20 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
