Ghost Busting .....it's time to work on Me

[dday]

Keep it up ghost. You can do this!

[ATPeace]

Right going to my parents then out for some food

It's hard not to count down the hours to when w goes out mind is going overtime

ENOUGH. STOP. NO MORE.

[ATPeace]

Just marking this for my own progress ...so nearly said to my W that it upsets me when you to out...... but bit my lip and just walked out

Small steps for me

[gonegrl]

You are doing it Ghost!
Good job. If you had told her she would have ignored you anyway. Keep it up.

[Sotto]

Well done Ghost....baby steps forward....keep taking them. In time, they grow into huge great changes

[ATPeace]

Her being out [censored] [censored] I'm going to sleep

goals for tomorrow no r talk
Do clean my cars
Smile morning and evening

[gonegrl]

Those are good goals Ghost. Maybe add something that is fun or nurturing for yourself?

I will clean my car tomorrow too, you inspired me! There is a lot of kid crap in my car, it all shifts every time I turn a corner. Skateboards, scooters, you name it. I will clean it out tomorrow.

[Vanilla]

Don't blame it on the good times blame it on the boogie ???? Or I'm bad ....no more Mr nice guy

Yes still smiling morning and evening :o).

Goals for today keep in the present don't look too far ahead
Ghost comes first children a close second my w I will be pleaent to but she is no more than a friend

If I want to watch Tv it is because I want to watch Tv not to spend it with the w

Do I enjoy her company yes am I going to start to detach yes
Time to loose some of this attraction she is hurting me with her actions remember this ghost

Nope. No correct guesses.

Tomorrow when you look and smile in the mirror. Grin when you know.

We are going to have some laughter and fun, turn the smile to a grin.

You are allowed to laugh allowed now for nearly a minute a day, and we have a tune to hum.

I do hope you like Michael Jacksons music........

If not I apologise. Maybe I should have chosen Lionel Ritchie?


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[ATPeace]

So this is my pain w is out clubbing clubs shut at 2.am ish and here I am cannot sleep and am awake feel like being downstairs when she gets in and tell her just how it makes me feel

She is out having fun making new friends doing [censored] knows what

[ATPeace]

I just want to turn this arround I am 46 short fat and balding I am too old to be trying to move on and form another relationship if she is already thinking of this if she is .....she is good looking slim blonde she could be with someone in no time at all .....her life moves on nicely

I hate her for doing this I do not want to hate her but right now I am actually starting to really [censored] hate the bitch god I need to stfu