You can always compliment her on her outfit. Keep it that.
Glad you and S had good time.
Me: 50 W:43 S6, S3 M: 12 yrs. T: 17 M is bad & Not happy Bomb Mar '14 S 5 Feb '15 D Bomb 13 Apr '15 (but "no hurry") DB Coach May '15 Wants proceed on D Aug '15 Starting 1-on-1 negotiations Sept '15
Yeah, I know I "can" but I don't want to ruin the mood she has been in these past few days. It seems that when I start to relax and do or say small things that are nice, her guard goes back up and it leaves. Over time I'm sure I will again but I don't feel like now is that time. Just rolling with the waves haha
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
So far today S4 and I have been to Sunday school, went for a nice lunch and did our grocery shopping. Now to find some kind of fun to be had for the rest of the day!
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
I've got the Monday morning funk going again today. Not as bad as previous weeks and I think the cold rainy weather has a lot to do with it today?
Had a great weekend with S4! Up until bed time last night haha. He didn't fight going to sleep but... Once he did he was running a marathon! He was on top of me, underneath me, kicking and swinging. I don't know how he got any rest because I know I didn't. When it was time to get up this morning I had a hard time finding him! Laying across the bed down by my feet under all the blankets. Must have either been having a bad dream all night or training for an ironman race?!?'
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
Hi Uphill, did he have anything with MSG at all? My SS used to go a bit bonkers when he had crisps or anything with MSG - he'd thrash around all night!
Just thought I would mention as it popped into my mind when I read this.
Take care xx
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
Sotto, he didn't that I am aware of? If he did it would have been minimal... Thatnk you for the idea though!
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
Kid swap went well tonight. Prolly the most relaxed one to date. XF got there and S4 and myself were already waiting. Right up front it was strictly buisiness. Schedule change to suit her (I have no problem with this slight mixup for the week because there is a logical reason for it). While we were discussing that S4 locked the keys in my truck, handled that in stride and made a game of breaking into the truck haha. A little small talk after that followed by me getting S4 buckled in. He wouldn't give me a hug and kiss so I went about "stealing" one. Kept kissing him all over and he giggled like a little chimp. When I closed his door he opened it right away teasing me as if I wouldn't do it again so I went right back at it and with one of my hands hit the child lock on the door. Closed the door again and he got mad about that but me and XF looked at each other land giggled, kinda like "gotcha". As she was pulling out she looked over a few times an waved with a big smile on her face... It felt so good, kinda like old times when she would have to go somewhere with him and he wasn't cooperating.
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
That's funny about S4. I could see mine doing the same thing except the child lock has been on for about a year since he opened the door while I was driving...once.
These exchanges make things so stress free it is great. Then it gets me "why can't he see we are happy?" oh well, in time I guess. It is totally better for the kids to see us this way and I would much rather be great at co-parenting than the opposite. Keep up the good work Uphill!
Me:33 H:36 T:13 years M:10 years S4 Separated 05/15 H Filed 06/15
Yeah, it is days like this that make me wonder what is really going on in her head? I know it is impossible to tell but that kind of thing was every day just a few months ago?!?! Oh well, no sense in dwelling on it because who knows what tomorrow brings. It could be the same, it could be a total spew fest. I'm hoping for a lot more days like today but not holding my breath
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
Oh and Ep, the child lock is usually on in her car. That is one of the newer tricks he has learned to do when nobody is looking so he can get out haha
Me 34, XF 27 Many years together Son 4 Engaged Not engaged Many false starts by XF 7/16 new girlfriend comes into my life 2/17 girlfriend moves in my home
