Feeling Numb

[PigPen]

So sorry E, I wish I had something more positive to add. I'm just going to send you a boatload of love and strength and an endless supply of hugs. I've got a rock solid shoulder too. Honestly, built the thing myself. It's yours if you need to cry on it.

Stay strong, this is a test that you will pass. It will leave a mark on you but breathe through it. Big belly breaths. Lots of softness and compassion for yourself around what you're going through. Post here as much as you can, to vent, to cry, to do whatever you need to to get it all out.

Big hug,
PP

[Bob723]

Suprise E!

I am sorry to you and all I've been off-line for so long. I think about you all often. I am also saddened to hear the turn your situation has taken.

It looks like the "DB Family" has stepped up big time for you. Do you know why? Because we all care about you.

Breathe. Live. Keep your emotions in check.

Hugs & Kisses,

Your "bro"

[ATPeace]

Hi Elly

Just wanted to drop in and give you some huggs

I see your strength in your posts

Take care

Ghost

[Elly4]

We were never immune, we were just naïve I guess. Who would ever dream that this love of our lives would ever be capable of causing us such pain.

Your husband has been in his mlc for a while and who knows how long he will be there. It sounds like he has been more engaged in your sons live so that is a good thing.

Have you contacted a lawyer yet to get dome legal advice to better understand your rights and what you can expected?

Hi Zephyr, thanks for stopping by. I haven't contacted a lawyer yet. I have a name, just don't ever seem to do it. Maybe procrastinating is a defense mechanism. I don't know. He comes highly recommended for both skill and working with my budget; which is slim I admit.

I'll do it this week, promise!

How are you doing? I'll check on your sitch tonight.

*hugs*
E

[Elly4]

If she come down with laryngitis I'll never know.

Anytime the silence is getting to you, give me a holler.

Thanks, Mutatio! For the laugh and the offer of help. They are both very much appreciated. Hope your weekend went well!

E

[Elly4]

PP, thanks for the pep talk. I really need to start getting on here at night and posting. I miss all of you and the support. I'm also thinking about your sitches and hoping they are going well. Logging on here is an important part for me right now and I shouldn't neglect it.

Thanks again!

hugs
E

[Elly4]

Bob!!!!!!!!! Nice to hear from you! I'm going through this the best I can, but I keep forgetting to breathe. I know I can, I know I can!

How are you?!?!? You are in my prayers every night.

***hugs***
From your sis,
E

[Elly4]

Ghost, thanks for stopping by! I'm glad you see my strength, as I don't. I feel like I'm surviving, but I would love to live again. I guess that's what DBing is all about though, right?

I'll have to catch up on your sitch soon.

E

[Elly4]

So, I took my S to a concert this weekend and it was awesome! He enjoyed it, I enjoyed, so win win I guess. It was nice to have no schedule and to relax and spend the time with my S. My H so often doesn't see the need for frivolous time while on the road, so letting my S "play" on video games for 15 minutes at the rest stop was a novelty for him. He didn't care that he didn't have quarters.

Stopped at a mall, played in a field, it was a good day.

I hope the week goes smoothly.

E

[mutatio]

I'm glad you had a nice weekend, you deserve it. Things are quiet here.