Hello my lovely Irish friend. Just dropping in to say Hi and thank you for your kind post on my thread. I hope all is well with you and those lovely kids and fur balls. How did your W get on with the LC??
xoxox
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
Hi Toots. Thanks for stopping by. Always easy to be kind on your thread
EXW trip to L/C has not been discussed but I hope it helped her.
All good with kids We are watching Shooting Stars. I just made us all French stick , ham and cheese for tomorrow I made S20', bacon sandwiches and the other three savage rolls for supper. I had cornflakes with a cheeky white wine !!!
the cats are all fine and my dogs are asleep on the rug D11 has one of are cats trained like a rag doll , the minute she picks him up he collapses like he passed out! !!! He's on her lap Upside down with his head hanging down !! Cat whisper !!
Kids have said that EXW seems a lot more like thier d mum , both Ds have said this to me and D14 sees a huge difference. I hope EXW can continue on this path because it really makes both Ds really happy
Take care Toots , I will check your thread now Rd. xxxx
I’m just swinging by to let you know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Hang in there...you will make it, mate. PMA!
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Hi Jim. EXW seems to be getting better re kids. I was with L/C yesterday and she told me a little of how EXW is feeling. It's seems she is very unsure of her future and has not ruled anything out. L/C feels EXW is still lost but starting to find her way back. EXW told her she isn't happy but is my sure what will make her happy. L/C did ask about OM and EXW is still saying just s friend
L/C was pleased with my detachment but dosent want me to detach to much
She feels EXW needs lots of space and time. I have no problem with as I don't see EXW and me back together
No big plans for the weekend. Bowling tonight and tomorrow I have to take out the engine from S20s bike. It blew up yesterday !!!!
Sunday , I might take kids to butterfly museum I heard about today
Nothing exciting , no Lama racing or donkey wrestling like Sotto !!!! is this your weekend with the kids Jim ?
Rebuilding an engine sounds like quite the task. Is it something you'll do with S20?
I'm glad your EXW is doing a bit better as that must be much better for your kids. Given your posts I could well believe OM is just a friend, if only because EXW s behaviour is so at odds with what seems typical when there is an PA going on.
Either way I think L/C serves you well
No kids (and therefore no contact with kids) for me this weekend.
Have fun bowling.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
Hi Jim. It's a two stroke so not to difficult. EXW making a real effort with kids and it is good to see
L/C is fantastic and imwouldmbe lead by her. It's tough Jim because I want to stand but feel EXW has endured so much pain it would be a very difficult decision for her to try to comeback to the family. I do think she misses us a huge amount but she's chosen a path and she seems to be following it
I can't imagine how hard the no contact must be , I hope you are keeping busy
The bowling is great fun and two of the kids have the sides up so sometimes I have to actual try , to beat them
I am glad that life has some normality to it and the kids can have a feeling of security. It may not be noticeable right now but all the hard work to support all your kids needs now, will pay back with interest when you finally see them as healthy adults conquering their lives.
I am glad that the pills are working for your W. It's said that for each year of M, there will be a month of separation, so time is going by and she may be getting a little less frustrated and a lot more in touch with her real self. Not mentioning that she may be feeling a bit calmer these days.
Love Resident Evil, and I think that Milla is divine, she is gorgeous. Did you guys see the series "Walking Dead" ? Very cool with the whole zombie stuff. Even better because their worst enemy are normal people.
Love the dinner arrangements, you seem like you love to cook RD, is that right? I don't, really, really don't like to cook. I can eat anything that does not need much preparation. The funny thing is that it is much healthier.
So, what helmet did you get? And why S20's engine blow up? Did he push it too hard?
