I heard another snippet the other week from a friend who said WW had told them our R had been fizzling out for years. Wow, just Wow. This same person (a man by the way) was also commenting how when we were at their house (which used to be a lot) we were the perfect couple, stealing kisses and hugs when we though nobody was looking.
Like they say, believe nothing of what they say and only 50% of what they do.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Yeah, heard that line as well - 'it's been a long time coming' - has it? News to me. In fact news to everybody who was shocked when W did what she has done with most people (except her family) hoping we get it 'sorted out'.
All variations on a theme, sadly. Just part of the script for the play from hell. Programme in the seventies called 'Armchair Thriller' - this is one of those alright!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Hardest thing you've ever done? You better believe it.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Quick call from W to advise we have a viewer booked in for tonight. Sounded quite friendly, but I don't don't know if she is just 'friending' me, or is really reconsidering her position. It was nice to talk to W though. Spoke to kids as well and W talked after I'd finished talking to them.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
I have a look at your sitch, but it seems you're getting loads of good advice.
Little bit down today. No reason really. Suppose the lack of contact from W is hurting. Watched a programme on TV about a couple who have been separated for seven months selling their home and moving on. No hope for them. I guess that was not the best show to tune in to!
Hi Huddy
Yes, I am getting good advice. In hindsight, no, it probably wasn't the best show to watch. I hope you are feeling better today.
As NDY suggested, try to stay busy. GAL has REALLY helped me.
Hang in there, mate. You can do this.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Thanks for asking, feeling better, apart from those pesky blisters!
SD back today, so Pizza Hut tea for us. SD let slip that W is coming back from her parents a day earlier than she said. W hasn't told me, so I don't know if that is a positive or not.
Hold on to my hat. GAL activity tomorrow, as I'm planning a field trip to Brighton (that's a large seaside city on the south coast of the UK, about 430 miles from here). Up and back in the day (a long day), but it uses up a free flight voucher I had.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
She's getting her hair done specifically for coming home? Ok, that could be good but no expectations.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
