Keep the PMA up my friend. These are the testing times, when you are on your own with time on your hands. This is why keeping occupied is so important. Be cool.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
I haven’t been on the board much this week, so I’m sorry if it seems like a life-time ago that I checked in with you.
NDY "hit the nail right on the head" with that post!
Keeping as active as possible has really helped me. I pray you can do the same, and just take things one day at a time.
Wishing you well.
Your friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
I have a look at your sitch, but it seems you're getting loads of good advice.
Little bit down today. No reason really. Suppose the lack of contact from W is hurting. Watched a programme on TV about a couple who have been separated for seven months selling their home and moving on. No hope for them. I guess that was not the best show to tune in to!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Try and stay busy. Look mate. My WW moved out. I have seen her once in 2 months. It gets better. Drop the rope. Easier said than done but you will feel better for it.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Nightmare back last night. Just a bit down. Couple of texts from SD over weekend. Nothing really that couldn't wait until Tuesday when she's back, but I think W will have asked her to check in on me. The responses were worded in a way that W would use. I'm talking to our two cats. Weird, right? I haven't seen another human since Friday. Would have gone out, but my feet hurt so much! Strapped up like a good 'un today.
It's SD's birthday today, so will text to wish her happy birthday. Planned a Pizza Hut tea for her tomorrow, so that is something to look forward to.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
We all get those day mate. It'll be ok. You just need to get out and about. Some human interaction.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
At work today. Trip to chemist for more foot bandages! Feel a bit better. Even managed to give my 'valued' input to a couple of newbies that have arrived on the scene.
There sitch is the same as ours, in varied degrees. Now I am convinced that it is implanted in their brains when the are born!
The cats didn't want to talk, by the way. Ha ha.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Yea, I hear ya. Ive jumped in on a few noobs as well. Pity, we all come here looking for solutions and when there isn't a magic wand it's another punch in the gut.
Just telling people they will eventually feel better isn't enough when your back at the start. It's too raw, too surreal. But over time you get the hang of it.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Tell me about it. I wish I found this place on BD night. I made just about every foolish mistake there is. The only thing I did not do is beg.
Every now and again I re read Sandi2's posts on the WW. Just to keep myself in check with what I'm dealing with.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
