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Thanks eirinn, can always use your prayers. I am truely blessed to know you are looking out for me!

Roiste, I am so very thankful for your concern and support! I really could not Keep this all up without everyone's help and honesty.

I have been super busy. Had awesome night on Monday doing the paint class with brothers and all respective spouses. Wife and I had great dinner Tuesday, then went and lounged at pool...then shopping at art store to get some supplies to do more painting.

Yesterday did my swimming. Got to use he new paddles and bouys he boys gave me for father's day. Then had guitar lesson. Started a new song I am going to have some fun with...eli young band, if it breaks your heart.

I am going to Milwaukee today and I am pretty sure I will have a big update going to be necessary after I get back. Uncomfortable friend and wife are going to be there... So ya that is something that I am going to be watching for...between trying to have a good time.

Thank you all...fingers crossed.


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Yeah that can tarnish anything, but you can still have fun. I did last Saturday. It can be done. Guess it depends on what you observe. Good luck with the trip. We'll be here when you get back.


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Roiste, was thinking of your weekend when I typed that out. Looks like you handled yourself well...a good blueprint for me so to speak.

Thanks again!!!

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Zephyr, good luck on your trip. Just keep telling yourself to have no expectations and I was glad to see you packed some STFU pills. I need to refill my prescription.

*hugs*

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Hey Zephyr,

I also want to wish you good luck on your trip.

I will dedicate a prayer to you right after this post. smile

Hang in there!

Bob


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Zephyr, good luck, I keep my fingers crossed you continue moving in positive directions.


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Thinking of you. Hope you are having a good time!


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Hey Zephyr,

I really hope you are having a good time! cool

Thinking of you . . .

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How did it go?


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That's what I was wondering too, Roiste. Weren't we promised an update?

*hugs* Zephyr

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