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Pink17 #2585351 07/06/15 10:42 PM
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Originally Posted By: Pink17
This is very good news, it seems that she is trying to help herself now. Just keep in mind that the meds take some time to kick in and work properly to help her.

You may see even more depression before it start getting better. But, the important thing is that she will certainly take the edge away.
Hi Rd,

First time I've checked in on you in a few days. I agree with Dear V and Pink17...it is a start.

Hang in there, mate, and keep moving forward. I know you CAN do this.

I will dedicate a prayer to you and your W as soon as I post this.

Bob


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RD, not surprised by the diagnoses, and maybe this will help her pull herself together. It's what you both need.



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RD

I am more than thrilled to be an 'aunt' to your loving family.

Thrilled to pieces.

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Hi Vanillia. Pink. Bob. Sunny and thanks.

Vanillia. I hope this helps ber back on track with her life. Your are hereby adopted My kids are the winners here

Pink. Thank you for everything. And I really don't care what you look like It's what's inside that matters. Don't get me wrong. It doesn't hurt you resemble Selma !!! !!

Bob. Thank you and I appreciate you always kind words

Sunny It a step in the right direction for sure. Thanks for keeping up on my sitch

Take care all. Rd

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Hi RD,

I'm really pleased your W is getting some help at last. Im not one for taking medication but I've also never seen the point of not taking help when it's offered. Hopefully its the first step in her road to recover, and as the saying goes 'every journey starts with a first step'.

Whatever it means for you and your situation, its good for your kids and just on a pure human level noone should be struggling like your W has been.

Just going back a post or two, personally I think you were OK to say you miss her and I don't think you should apologise for it. You didn't say it to make her feel bad, you said what you genuinely felt and you shouldn't have to apologise for your feelings.

Think of it as keeping the path smooth and well lit.

Sounding good about the bike rides, more RD GAL please!!!!

And I'm sure lanzarote will be awesome. I liked the volcano park but then I love that sort of thing.

Have a good day smile


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hi Jim , thanks for posting mate, I really pleased that she is getting some help. I kmow we can only believe so much of what they say but EXW has seemed really lost and very unhappy.

I don't know what it will mean for her but I hope she gets some peace and is able to see what she is doing in regards to her own life. If she wants to go down any road with her life , I would hope she choses with a clear mind.

The volcanos sound great and we are staying next to a water park so that should be awesome as well

The bike is always fun and takes you away from the sitch for a while.


Take care Rd

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Hi RD, I was pleased to see that your W has accepted some help. It is a good step that she has acknowledged she feels pretty rotten AND has done something about it too. I feel that for ages she has saying how low she feels, but hasn't managed to do anything positive in terms of moving towards a place of greater happiness.

Hopefully the ADs will help her move towards this....

Take care RD.....xx


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Hi RD,

Just checking, hope everything is OK. Feel kind of very down today. I guess that is the way the roller coaster works for all of us in this forum.

Hope you're feeling better.
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Hi Pink. I m sorry to hear your down. It's very hard to keep PMA all the time. You are only human and at each step it takes its toll.

I can only remind you how lucky you are with your boys , your family and your job

H was a huge part of your life and my heart tells me he will be again it's just going to take time

Take each day as it comes and turn up tomorrow looking all " selma " and show H what he's losing

Take care. Rd. xx

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Just checking in on my virtual family.

I have some UK 'rock' from the seaside to send over.

V

Last edited by Vanilla; 07/08/15 11:53 PM.

Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
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