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http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...504#Post2580504

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W having possible MLC;
Threatening to take the kids 230 miles away;
Says no chance of an R;
W has been ill, but still toxic.

Nice and quiet at the moment. Stalemate, I suppose. W has told me when she's going away and has made a point of saying she is coming back. W still having problems with her kidneys. Handyman brought in to do a couple of odd jobs which W told me about.

Calm before the storm?


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Has she prepared for the move yet?


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House has been put to market, but no sign etc. has been erected. Local Council says no to a house, so she really is up a creek without a paddle! W has bought new school uniform for next year and has been to see S's new teacher for the next term after summer, so, it looks like she's staying for a while.


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W has received her letter from the Counsellor, but as of yet, hasn't spewed about it to me. It was put in the recycling though! I noticed it asked her to come in and make an appointment and talk things through. Couple of weeks ago, that would have been a major blow up point. Mind you, the night is young yet!

W has taken D to a school disco, so just me and S in the house. bathtime and TV until they return.


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So does that mean she's not going?


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Hey Huddy, buying the school uniform is a positive :-)

maybe she has realised that it will be hard on her own after her incident at the hospital.

Keep in there, Huddy.


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Huddy,

Stay the course and focus on your own 180s. Sometimes life has a way of teaching the WAS some lessons. Consequences is Lady Karma's responsibility, not yours.

Smile quietly and go on your own merry way.

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Hi Wonka, I wondered whether you could look at my sitch, and give me some advice.

Sorry, Huddy for asking on your thread.


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Steady as she goes my friend. Sounds like your just coasting a long ATM. So W gas to stay there because local Council won't give her a house, what happened to moving far away plan?


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Morning all

Sorry I didn't get back to you all last night.

Still no spew from W about counsellor. Really quiet evening last night, so not much to say. Is she going away? For two weeks she is, but she has made a point about saying she'll be coming back. A few weeks ago, I feared she'd just go.

Steady as she goes right now!


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