I think its great to discuss different viewpoints. Even if at the end of the day we maintain our separate views we can analyze the negatives and positives each may have. This can give us a better understanding of why we think a specific way, questioning ourselves. That is one major reason we are here, mirror work. Sometimes it takes another perspective to see a clearer image in that mirror. Like Zues said before, one belief isn't necessarily wrong or right, its more important how it helps the individual. Good discussions
Where do you get off being so reasonable and diplomatic?!?
Me:38 XW:38 T:11 years M:8 years Kids: S14, D11, D7 BD/Move out day: 6/17/14, D final Dec 15
Let's face it. We are all humans with natural sexual urges and needs.
There is no such thing as a sexual need.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
need - like breathe maybe? otherwise I agree with Wonka. I think?
The meaning of the word "need" being something a person cannot live without.
If people want to redefine the word "need" to mean "something I really, really like and want and don't like to deny myself" that is fine. People can do that. But then it is a semantics debate and does not change the fact that sex is not a biological necessity like food and water and oxygen.
There is no such thing as a sexual need. It is not a biological requirement to remain alive.
-PM
M:12y - BD:12/11 - D:6/13 - 4Ds
"The ultimate measure of a man is not where he stands in moments of comfort and convenience, but where he stands at times of challenge and controversy." -MLK Jr.
Just checking in to see how you are doing? Sorry, it's been a while.
Your friend,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
