Teacher needs to become the pupil

[teach3]

Signed up for my sessions with DB coach. I start today after school. Relief.

[mahhhty]

Wonderful! Good luck! I love my DB Coach. I hope you have a similar experience.

[Elly4]

Yea, Teach! Sounds like you are starting your week well! I hope it continues for you!

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[teach3]

Had my first 50 minute session with my coach yesterday. It really made me feel better just to talk to someone outside this sitch. She gave me some good homework and we talked about LRT.

I believe the sessions are going to help me for sure and hopefully my marriage.

[Elly4]

I'm so glad it went well and that you have that resource!

*Hugs*
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[mahhhty]

Great to hear teach!!!

[teach3]

My coach told me I needed to find the line where my husband goes back in his rabbit hole and hides. So Sunday we spoke which went pretty good. Monday morning he actually answered his phone on the way to work and we had a regular conversation. Tuesday we had a little crisis and he talked to me and my son and was very helpful. Wed I got pathetic and asked my husband to consider going on a date with me at some point. Well his answer was I don't know and then that's enough for now. So....found his line LOL. Then today I was kinda pathetic on some text messages.

I plan on speaking with my coach at the beginning of next week. Since we aren't legally separated or divorce papers filed, she didn't think it would hurt to push a little and look for connections-positive or negative.

I just feel a little down.

[Elly4]

Teach,
We all fall down on the DBing sometimes...as a matter of fact I have had a horrible week of that. Just have to accept it and start again.

It's expected that you'll feel down and sad, especially right now for you. What did you do today for you?

hugs
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[teach3]

Today I'm going to a cook out, Sunday shopping and Monday the spa. I'm trying to stay busy. Thanks for checking up on me!

[skhdive]

Thanks so much for your post on my situation some how it pulled me off the brink. We will hang in there together and think it is all about patience and keeping your trap shut when you want to ask questions about R and stuff.