I get that a lot from my WW (the forgetting things) which is strange because: A) she is a woman and women never forget anything and B) see A
It must be a symptom of something. Strange, but my memory is much sharper these days. Perhaps it's a motivational or survival thing. Not sure but weird phenomenon.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
H has text to say he can no longer pick me up at the airport as he is away for work then. Feeling strangely disappointed and relief!
ironic, since DB coach and I only talked yesterday about goals for this meeting.
Do I need to answer with a validating and positive response?
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
I get that a lot from my WW (the forgetting things) which is strange because: A) she is a woman and women never forget anything and B) see A
It must be a symptom of something. Strange, but my memory is much sharper these days. Perhaps it's a motivational or survival thing. Not sure but weird phenomenon.
NDY, this made me laugh. Maybe our spouse are using 'memory loss' to help them cope with what they have done. :-)
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
Just finished Ft with DS. Just found out an incident from him on Thurs (our Anniversary date). DS had to call H to pick up at 4.30am in the morning as he too much to drink and was feeling really ill and thought 'he was going to die'
I am feeling quite hurt and cross that H was not able to tell me about it but was ok to put it on FB. I have not snooped, DS asked me if I seen it. Told him no and I still haven't looked though very tempted.
Can I approach h about this (not telling me)? What is the best approach? I know DS is 19. He said H was Ok about what had happened. We still share co parenting ( I know DS is an adult) but he hardly discuss anything with me that is happening In the UK, like this incident and agreeing to allow him to drive abroad. Am I overreacting, that I feel I have a right to know?
Also, now received a further text now, saying he can pick me up from the airport after all, he is abroad the following week. I can't detach like this.
Please can someone give me some good advice.
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
That is wrong about the drunken incident. Every youth has been through that and that's when your parents shine through.
Let him pick you up from the airport. Maybe it was an honest mistake. I'm a great believer in looking at someone. Just seeing you might make him think again. Look your best, look confident. Detach if it goes badly.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
I am grateful that DS was able to tell me about this incident and call H. I wasn't upset about the incident, just the fact I feel that H is not telling me information about DS that I feel I should know.
I don't feel this is about control.
Both 47 M 20 T25 S 18 EA July 11- Jan 12. ILYBNILWY Oct EA April 13 -July 13 Move to work abroad Sept 14 re establish contact with OW while away D bomb 22/12/14 D filed papers served 17/03/15
survival is about control Smothy. Is this overboard and unhealthy? I don't think so. You have the right, but your H has the right to not feel the same urgency. Expect to be disappointed by your H's actions not being what you would want, and be pleasantly surprised by the +ves. Whatever the future holds.
M: 6 T: 12 Kids: 2,4 BD: Jan 2015 S: Feb 2015 EA/PA confirmed: Feb2015/Mar2015
