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WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 7 (Bob) #2574185 06/01/15 05:37 PM
Joined: Dec 2014 Posts: 1,686 Midwest B Bob723 OP Member
OP Bob723 Member B Joined: Dec 2014 Posts: 1,686 Midwest	Starting thread number 7! Sixth thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2571633&page=1 Fifth thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2569106#Post2569106 Fourth thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2565234#Post2565234 Third thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2565232&page=1 Second thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2557868&page=1 First thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2555209#Post2555209 7+ months of DB'ing in the threads above. But I'm not giving up on my marriage and my lovely wife! Bob Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15

Re: WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 7 (Bob) Bob723 #2574188 06/01/15 05:42 PM
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Clairee Member C Joined: Apr 2015 Posts: 95	Thinking of you today. {{{Bob}}} M: 43 H: 40 M: 18y S17,D13 D12 IC 11/2014 BD 4/16/15 H home 6/25/15 OW2 EA 6/26/15 MC started 7/22/15 Baby stepping....

Re: WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 7 (Bob) Bob723 #2574189 06/01/15 05:43 PM
Joined: Dec 2014 Posts: 1,686 Midwest B Bob723 OP Member
OP Bob723 Member B Joined: Dec 2014 Posts: 1,686 Midwest	Journaling: I love the training class I'm in and it has kept my mind off today being our 14th Anniversary. I'll make it thru this day! Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15

Re: WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 7 (Bob) Bob723 #2574191 06/01/15 05:50 PM
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gr8ful3 Member G Joined: May 2015 Posts: 104	Thinking of you today Bob! I know how hard it is to get through these anniversary days. I've spent so many anniversary days by myself, I should have a routine down by now. I try to spend some time with a good friend and go out to have dinner with them. Do something nice for yourself tonight. Splurge 😊 Hugs, Gr8ful Me: 53 H: 54 M: 31

Re: WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 7 (Bob) Bob723 #2574197 06/01/15 06:06 PM
Joined: Feb 2015 Posts: 1,902 Right where I need to be F Fogg Member
Fogg Member F Joined: Feb 2015 Posts: 1,902 Right where I need to be	I know how rough those anniversaries can be, I had our 10 year 2 months ago. Keeping busy is the best thing you can do. Good luck. Accept what is, let go of what was, and have faith in what will be

Re: WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 7 (Bob) Bob723 #2574200 06/01/15 06:10 PM
Joined: Nov 2014 Posts: 977 M mahhhty Member
mahhhty Member M Joined: Nov 2014 Posts: 977	Originally Posted By: Bob723 Journaling: I love the training class I'm in and it has kept my mind off today being our 14th Anniversary. I'll make it thru this day! This and every other day Bob! Me: 32 W: 29 T:8 M: 6 D4 S2 M - 8/2008 W is not happy - 1/2014 W wants D - 9/2014 W moved out - 11/2014 D filed - 1/23/2015 D'ed - 2/25/2015 Gave X the Letter - 11/10/2015

Re: WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 7 (Bob) mahhhty #2574245 06/01/15 08:24 PM
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PigPen Member P Joined: Apr 2015 Posts: 1,387	Thinking of you today Bob. Hope you treat yourself to something special to commemorate the fact that you're still here fighting and doing so with integrity and honor. Make the best of today! M 39 W 36 T5 M3 BD - 1/15 Separated - Same Day Served 9/15 D finalized 6/17

Re: WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 7 (Bob) PigPen #2574262 06/01/15 09:09 PM
Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 13,536 Likes: 78 NY C Cadet Member
Cadet Member C Joined: Nov 2009 Posts: 13,536 Likes: 78 NY	So as you start a new thread I will give you this as food for thought. Your wife filed for divorce in Oct and you were served in Nov. What has happened in that regard since then? Are you closer to divorce, the same or further away? Sometimes we have no control over that however maybe this is the source of confusion for your wife? I think you are on the right path. Me-70, D37,S36

Re: WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 7 (Bob) Cadet #2574346 06/02/15 02:39 AM
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Roid76 Member R Joined: May 2014 Posts: 328	You are definitely on the right path. No matter what, she has some pause, and is thinking. That's sometimes the best we can hope for. Keep it up. M 38 W 28 D5 D2 T10/ M3

Re: WAW Filed for D the Next Day Part 7 (Bob) Roid76 #2574364 06/02/15 03:56 AM
Joined: Apr 2014 Posts: 3,500 M Maybell Member
Maybell Member M Joined: Apr 2014 Posts: 3,500	Bob, you've been generous with your prayers, so wanted to let you know that I said one for you as I read today was your anniversary. I hope you found a peaceful way to spend it and that you're doing ok tonight. Hugs, Maybell Me42, H40 D12, S8, S7 A revealed: 7/13 Sep 4/14; Agreed to D 1/15 She believed she could, so she did.

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