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Hi Defacto,

You are so welcome, buddy! My GAL'ing last night was awesome. I had a great time with my friends watching "my" Blackhawks beat the Ducks to reach their 3rd Stanley Cup Final in 6 seasons.

Thank you for asking, it means a lot to me!

Keep standing tall.

Bob


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Originally Posted By: Tweets
Hi Bob! Thanks so much for taking the time to stop by my post. I have finally caught up on your sitch. Your PMA is so inspiring. I was having a really rough morning & reading through your threads really brightened my day. Everyday I learn something new coming to these forums & everyday I say a prayer of thanks for all the beautiful people here.

Hi Tweets! You are so very welcome! This has taken time (beleive me!) but I have found that if you think good thoughts about any situation your actions will follow along those lines and you have a much better chance at the outcome you hope for compared to feeling down and hopeless about it. Oh, way back when this first happened, I felt down and hopeless. In shock -- which is our body's way to protect us from a traumatic experience.

You are one of the many beautiful people here. Try to think as positviely as you can about your sitch. I will dedicate a prayer to you right after I submit this post (that way, I don't forget LOL).

Thank you for taking your valuable time to check in on me! wink

*Hugs*

Bob


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Journaling:

Tomorrow I will be in training all day at work and will not have access to my laptop. Cell phones are not allowed in the classroom. Then, tomorrow night, I have an appt with my IC.

If you are a believer, may I ask a favor of you? Please say a prayer for me and my W tomorrow. It is our 14th Wedding Anniversary. It's good I'll be in training and then see my IC. I'll be fine, but I'm sure (being human) it may hit me at some point of the day.

God bless all of you in this "DB Family" We WILL get thru our sitches as long as we keep supporting one another! smile

Thank you.


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I will think of you, Bob, and keep you in my prayers. Best of luck.

RAI

P.S. that means a lot coming from a Habs fan grin

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Originally Posted By: RAI
P.S. that means a lot coming from a Habs fan grin

Hello RAI, it sure does!! Sorry about your Habs. Well, the team that knocked them out is the last team standing in the way of another Cup for my Hawks.

I can't thank you enough for keeping me in your thoughts and prayers tomorrow.

How have you been? I think I'll check your thread.

Take care!

Bob


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Bob - just wanted to wish you a happy anniversary for tomorrow. It's tough to have these dates come up at a time like this, but we get through them. I was ill on our anniversary last August, soon after BD and didn't hear from H at all. It was horrid! But once it's done it's done, and who knows what we'll be up to next year.

I hope you manage to have a nice day anyway. Good that you 'll be busy with training.

Take Care xx


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Toots - you seem to always know the right things to say. smile

Thank you for your encouragement and taking the time to check in and post.

Take care, too.

xoxo


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Stay positive mate. It's just another day. You never know what the future brings.


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Hi Bob,

Of course I'll keep you in my prayers tomorrow. If you start to get upset at anytime, just think that the best anniversary gift you can give to yourself and your relationship is a better Bob, and hey, you are already doing that!

I'll be thinking of you all day,

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NDY,

Thank you mate -- you are spot on! I love your PMA.

Take care,

Bob


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Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14
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Divorce Final: 10/21/15
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