I haven't heard from my W since her text about missing me and being "very confused" on Monday. I replied the next day (I call it the "team text") and that's been it. I expected this and I am not concerned at all. I feel at peace now. What is meant to happen will happen and is out of my control.
But...that's not going to stop me from keeping a PMA. Nobody, except me, can take that away from me.
Your DB Friend-
Bob
Hi Bon,
It's been a while but I wanted to check in and see how you are doing.. This post made me smile, you seem to be on the right track and I can only hope I will get there. Pretty far down in the pits now, so this post really meant a lot!
Keep up the PMA!! Seems you've got this! Hug!
M: 44 H: 43 ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect. "This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15 Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15 It's over: 9/5
Looks like you've been doing well this week. Saw we crossed paths on a number of threads today but not sure I posted to you. Keep your chin up and get out there and enjoy life. Wishing you the best.
Hi Matt,
It's always great to hear from you, my friend. I have been doing well this week. Thank you, sir! We did cross paths today, didn't we? That's good -- it means we are supporting each other.
Thanks for the kind words, support and your time.
Stand tall, take care of yourself and enjoy life, too.
I wish you well, Matt.
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
It's been a while but I wanted to check in and see how you are doing.. This post made me smile, you seem to be on the right track and I can only hope I will get there. Pretty far down in the pits now, so this post really meant a lot!
Keep up the PMA!! Seems you've got this! Hug!
Hi Tulo,
I am so happy to hear from you, thank you for checking in on me. I am doing better--thanks!
For a few days late last week, I was bombarded at work and didn't have time to log into this forum. Finally, last night and some of today I tried to catch up with all my friends on this board. I was thinking about you and another person but had to head out for a GAL activity tonight.
I'm really sorry to hear that you are "Pretty far down in the pits now." You brought a to my face when you wrote my post "really meant a lot." I'm so glad it did.
I'm about to head for bed but noticed your post and wanted to reply.
I'll check in on you tomorrow...I promise. Hang in there, Tulo!
Many *Hugs* coming to you . . .
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Okay Bob, I go away one day and come back to check your sitch and you have three pages to read! I hope you feel the outpouring of support you have on this board. You have made a difference to many, many people on here and as well as to yourself. As Cadet said, I think you still have a long road to traverse, but you are making the time you have count.
Way to go! E
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
Bob, Thanks for all the love and support you send our way. How was you GAL'ing last night?
Me:35 W:30 D:4 S:1 Bomb: 01/08/15, discovered EA & PA In House Separation: 01/14/15 W moves out: 04/05/15 I tell OM's W about A: 04/15/15 W serves D papers: 06/19/15 Mediation: 09/16/15 D final: 12/01/15
Hi Bob! Thanks so much for taking the time to stop by my post. I have finally caught up on your sitch. Your PMA is so inspiring. I was having a really rough morning & reading through your threads really brightened my day. Everyday I learn something new coming to these forums & everyday I say a prayer of thanks for all the beautiful people here.
Take care & have a great day!
M: 43 H: 40 M: 18y S17,D13 D12 IC 11/2014 BD 4/16/15 H home 6/25/15 OW2 EA 6/26/15 MC started 7/22/15 Baby stepping....
I just want to say that I have been reading through your threads and your an inspiration! Your a very kind and caring husband. Don't give up Bob723!
Hello teach,
You are too kind! Thank you very much for the super-kind words and support. You brought a huge to my face.
I will NOT give up.
{{{teach}}}
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Okay Bob, I go away one day and come back to check your sitch and you have three pages to read! I hope you feel the outpouring of support you have on this board. You have made a difference to many, many people on here and as well as to yourself. As Cadet said, I think you still have a long road to traverse, but you are making the time you have count.
Eirinn,
I can't stop laughing. This line: "I go away one day and come back to check your sitch and you have three pages to read!" has me in stitches. I love the way you say things. I can tell you have a great sense of humor and are probably a free-spirit.
So, did you get caught up? Hehe Just kidding!
E, in the short time you've been on this forum, I feel you have made a difference to many people here, too. You have become a good friend of mine. And you are learning fast--working on what you can control--yourself. Keep up the good work.
I do feel the "outpouring of support" here and it is one of the things that has helped me so much. It is quite humbling and, at the same, strengthens me.
Thank you for your support!
*Hugs* and more *Hugs*
I will check your thread very soon to see how your day went yesterday.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Nobody, except me, can take that away from me.
This line: "I go away one day and come back to check your sitch and you have three pages to read!" has me in stitches. I love the way you say things. I can tell you have a great sense of humor and are probably a free-spirit.