Well, that sounds like real progress. WW seems to be pulling back a bit. That's good, but you know, take it easy.
Morning mate.
Yea, I know. I need to play it cool. 3 days of calm isn't much in the long run. Let's see how the weekend pans out. She's out tonight and won't be home (again) and I have S9 so he and I are going to have a blast.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
OM is 8 yrs younger, V good looking. DJ party animal. Probably has a girlfriend in every nightclub he frequents.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Oh, he's a scumbag all right. That goes without saying. But it's been going on now for nearly a year. The anniversary is in exactly 10 days time. What joy.
Anyway I'm hoping that now I don't give a sh*t about them that the novelty for him will begin to wear off a bit. WW's fog doesn't allow her to see the real OM. You know the one that leaves the wet towel on the floor, picks his toenails, leaves dirty dishes in the sink etc etc.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
A year. That's harsh. Why hasn't she moved in with OM?
Couple of things here. First, she didn't BD me until Nov. Obviously she still felt there was a chance for us during the summer but last summer was the summer from hell. She made my life a misery. It wasn't until the Nov that she finally made her decision. Second, she won't leave S9. Not for a minute. She has even said that if she were to move out she would take S9 with her. But, and this is where the selfishness kicks in. I can leave my house. She wants me to leave so that S9 can stay in his own home but if she leaves so does he.
Besides, do you really think she wants to move into his flat? Seriously, her ideal situation is for me to accept her offer to buy me out so she can stay where she is then eventually move OM into my house.
She denies she will move him in but I'm not daft.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
