And don't forget very causiously. Need to be very careful.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Well, I hope this is the start of your dance! You've earned it.
dude, I got the moves like jagger. But this has to be very carefully thought out. I'll post tonight on how it goes.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Well, that's evening two of the new approach and once again it was ok. I need to be very careful she doesn't see this as an opportunity to eat cake. It's a bit of a tightrope here. I could be setting myself up for a fall or I could be cracking through the fog.
She had to go to a meeting at S9's school. When she arrived S9'and I were having a competition video game so although we said hi she wasn't the most important event going on at that point, and I think she liked that. S9 and I playing that is. We made dinner (separate food) but chatted. Again light and jovial. It was ok.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Calm is good. Looks like the dust is settled. Now she's just got to realise what a hole she's dug and find a way of getting out of it.
Glad you had a good time with S. That's a bonus that any father can't give up.
Thanks mate. I even got a goodby this morning. I was stunned at that.
The time with S9 is brilliant. I kinda get her point about me not spending enough time with him. It was one of her reasons on bd.'I did let life get in the way of living. I put stupid chores before him. That was wrong of me and I accept that.
With us now broken, it's very liberating. I don't care if the chores aren't done. It can wait. And WW can't complain.
Funny, in her email the other day she was complaining about how I please myself, go out with my friends when I want, go to the gym when I want, go out for a run when I want. Don't do the household chores anymore (that's because she told me not to, but that's beside the point). So basically the exact opposite of the guy she broke up with. Mad, isn't it?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Quite, quite mad! The wonderful world of the WW/WAS. It's like alice in wonderland.
And it will get even more mad, trust me.
So I now have to balance between being a good guy that doesn't give a fig about her A as I'm only there for S9 and allowing her to cake eat. It's going to be tough but I'm sure I'll manage.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
So yet another calm day. Almost getting along like we used to.
So return from work and S9 is out. WW is having food but she does say hi and let's me know S9 is out.
Then, within 10 minutes S9 comes in and wants me to play BB. Right away without hesitation I say yes. Get changed into sports gear and we start playing. This is a CONSISTANT 180 for me. If you follow my thread you will know this is one of the things that led to our bread up I.e. how I didn't spend enough time with him. Well, I have spent so much time with him lately it's been fantastic.
But during the game WW comes out wanting a shot. S9 wasn't for it but I got the ball and gave it to WW. She took the shot. It was nice. Then we had a joke about wanting things from the shops, I won't repeat it here because it won't be funny but the point is S9 and I were all "yea, see ya" because we had a game on.
Btw, I lost.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
