That's the fella! Sweat it out. I've lost another stone since a couple of weeks ago, so look the best, weight wise, since about 1999.
I got told by L that the more W hurts the kids, the sheriff takes a dimmer view of things. If only W knew.
I've heard the same, but difficult to prove.
I have the opposite problem with my weight. I'm 6" and at the moment up to 11' 11 1/2". At Christmas I was sitting at 9'. I was a wreck. Now I feel amazing and haven't looked this good in a long time.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
I'm 6'1, so now at my BMI weight. However, everyone at work says I look ill. I think that's because I've lost it so quickly. Maybe we ought to market the stress diet!
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Ok, what just happened? I took the initiative and started to talk to her about arrangements for the coming weekend. Separate plans and all that. And we just had a nice evening. Funny, light hearted, jovial. No pressure, no R talk just getting along. Like we used to be. We haven't been like that for such a long time.
I know that there should be no expectations. Keep it cool NDY. But she was nice. Like my old wife. I know it will most likely be different tomorrow but she reacted to my attitude in a good way. But a little bit of the old W came out tonight.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
OK, maybe the text ou sent earlier woke her up a bit, or it's a temp check.
What's she planning? Being with you and S or being with OM? When they let there anger subside, the previous W seems to come back just a bit. Hopefully she's realising what she's missing out on.
M 45 W 52 SD22 S9 D8 BD 6 April 2015 Not living together 4 Dec 2015
Ok, what just happened? But a little bit of the old W came out tonight.
Glad for you. Keep the momentum going, no expectations (haha, look who's talking) and hopefully you'll more of these good times between the two of you as you go along..
Have a great day!
M: 44 H: 43 ILYBNILWY: 7/4-15 Decided to try to reconnect. "This doesn't work, I have no feelings": 20/4-15 Scheduled "talk" :9/5-15 It's over: 9/5
OK, maybe the text ou sent earlier woke her up a bit, or it's a temp check.
What's she planning? Being with you and S or being with OM? When they let there anger subside, the previous W seems to come back just a bit. Hopefully she's realising what she's missing out on.
Oh, she's out with the OM. Difference is that I've dropped the rope on that one. I'm not sure what effect the email had. We'll see as I don't think that play is quite finished yet.
She also wants to do things with S9. Which is good but she also hinted at the 3 of us doing something as well. Temp check? Yea, I think so but this is where a new strategy starts.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
A bit less NC. Remember how on these threads they always say listen to what your WAS is REALLY saying to you? Well, in her replies to me she kept going on about how I was distant (NC at work) and how I was never around (GAL). Obviously this is working as it's getting to her (not sure if it's the right reaction but it's a reaction). So now be a bit more available. Not overboard you understand, just enough.
i need to be careful though that I don't get sucked into her mind games. No expectations.
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
Ah, right. Rules are working a bit, so you vary how it's being played. OK, see how that goes and report back!
First, I'll see how things are tonight. I want to play BB with S9 after work and we usually take an hour or 2. However, if she approaches me then cool, i'll be there. Other than that same rules apply. Know what I mean?
Me:43 Her:42 M:14 S:9 EA started 2014/03 (or there abouts) PA started 2014/05/30 BD:2014/11/05 I left 2015/10/01 I returned 2015/05/02 She left 2015/06/10 OM still on the go.
