Wayward Wife and the Way of LRT

[Defacto]

Journaling:
W just called this morning, which I wasn't expecting because her mom was with the kids. W told me that she had a story from last night at work that made her think of me. So I let W tell me the funny story and I actively listened. I laughed, made a passing remark about story, and thanked her for sharing the story with me.

I then changed the topic to the kids and told W about my great morning with the kids.

W then asked me to make sure to look at the email she sent from her L. I told her that I started to look at it.
I then wished her a good day and hoped she got some rest.

It was really a very cordial and upbeat conversation.

I'm just wondering about the purpose of W's call. She didn't need to check on the kids. I'm mindreading here but maybe W still finds comfort in the routine of calling me after her shift. Sounds like W doesn't want to lose my friendship.

W called me so I don't view my being cordial as pursuing. I simply let W tell her story and I proved to W I was listening. I think being cold and unfriendly would be damaging.

Just now, W sent me a pic of me with our D4 from four years ago. I know it doesn't mean anything but just wanted to share.

[pilot]

I am not going to mind read, but I have seen it before. She is being nice because she wants you to cooperate with her plan for D. She is feeding you breadcrumbs to get her way.

I would be hesitant discussing anything with her lawyer with out one of your own present as well. Even if you think this is something you can work out together. In which case, I would take W to meet a new mutually agreed upon one. Anyone she went to first who at any point can become adversarial towards you is not someone I would even respond "hi" to on the street because that "hi" could come back to haunt you.

[Cadet]

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