Yup...counting in my "aye" here to Toots. Chillax, Bob!
Hi Wonka,
How are you? Both you and Toots always give good advice, and since you agreed with Toots, it's a no-brainer for me now.
As I posted to Toots.....thank you for saving me from myself!
I always appreciate you keeping up with my situation and stepping in with solid advice.
I will 'Chillax."
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Hi Bob I feel you are rushing at the problem and that's not what's going to work for you. As toots has posted , you need to step back , let W make all the running you can't speed this up All Bob can do is work on Bob.
Please listen Bob. Patience is your new best friend and he's very hard to get on with but he will stand to you in the long run You have told us that your W considers you smothering. Think on this.
You're welcome Bob. I'm doing pretty well thanks....just posted an update on my thread in Infidelity....just tootling along ya know
Toots,
I will check your thread in a few minutes. I'm happy to hear you are doing pretty well.
Take care of yourself, ok?
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Hi Bob I feel you are rushing at the problem and that's not what's going to work for you. As toots has posted , you need to step back , let W make all the running you can't speed this up All Bob can do is work on Bob.
Please listen Bob. Patience is your new best friend and he's very hard to get on with but he will stand to you in the long run You have told us that your W considers you smothering. Think on this.
Positive thoughts Rd
Rd,
You are so terrific and correct! I am rushing at the problem.
I will continue to work on myself. I enjoy it (working on myself not the D) because I find it a challenge and I like learning new things about myself -- even flaws.
Rd, thank you so much for your time and wisdom.
How are you holding up?
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
I am not a bible expert, but I added this to a post in TenBook's thread moments ago. Of course, I am still struggling and sad, but this bible verse really helps me:
“‘For I know the plans I have for you,’ declares the LORD, ‘plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future’” (Jeremiah 29:11).
Regards,
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
There was a power outage in the subdivision I live in tonight. It brought back bittersweet memories of one time when this happened back when my wife and I were soulmates.
Right now I am so sad and I'm sticking with staying dark and I have not heard from my wife in about a week.
Another reason I'm sad is I realized tomorrow will be exactly 6 months that she walked out on me. Happy anniversary, right?
Anybody who happens to see my post I could really use your prayers.
Good night.
Bob
Me:55 yrs/W:51 yrs (has MS) M:14 yrs T:15 yrs No children together--3 each from previous marriages Wife Moved Out: 10/19/14 Wife Filed for Divorce: 10/20/14 Divorce Final: 10/21/15
Bob, I'm not a very religious person. I've been thinking about it religion a lot lately. In fact, I may join a friend of mine and his family at church next Sunday.
Religious or not, you're in my thoughts. I read you posts daily. I assure you, if I start to pray again you'll be in them.
M:42 W:43 T:14 M:10 S:9 D:5 W filed 12/22/14 EA 12/31/14 PA 4/10/15 D final 5/13/15
