Working the Plan

[HeavyD]

So many posts from so many people, I was really surprised.

Based on the posts, I have:

1. started a gratitutde journal
2. started a solution journal
3. gone to gym today after work
4. lunched with friends today
5. scheduled drinks with friend Thursday

Small steps but I think in the right direction.

[Mozza]

I notice when people say things to you, you seem to fixate on wanting answers to things about your W.

x2

[MrBond]

"Woundedfool (who helped me from day one until now) told me people estimate about 1 month for every year of marriage."

"1 month of DB'ing"

Actually that's not correct. The saying goes that once a couple decides to reconcile, it takes approx. 1 month of reconciliation for every year of M to get things on track.

That was some statistic that someone once found and posted on here years ago.

[T384]

Oh oops. That's what was told to me and it was kind of close to my timeline. Noted for future reference