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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
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In the last thread I decided that I was abused for the last time by H. No more.

So I stated my boundary as such, took action and went dancing.

Eleven was always my lucky number, let us hope 12 is luckier.......

H is silent.

I am feeling peaceful.
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Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
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Lovely V,

It makes me feel a lot better that you did not need to go back to the house yet. A few more days of peace and quite will make you feel all recharged.

It's also good that your H is having some time to think things over. Of course, he needs a lot more then a few days if there is a chance to change. But he may start thinking that he may lose V if he continue the same behavior.

Well, right now it doesn't help to think of what is or will be tomorrow. It helps to have some fun, enjoy life and relax...

Take the time to love yourself V,

Love,
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Saluting you today, V, with a cheeeese tasting tour in Amsterdam wink Thanks for your wise presence on these forums. We all get so much from your words.


H 37 Me 36
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Here's to 12! 12 is a good round number. Cheers to you for standing up for yourself and demanding what you deserve. You are a breath of fresh air, sweet lady!


Me 52, H53
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Drawing my inspiration today from you, V.
Hugs, and delicious wine and cheese to you!


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Psych-abusive M with violent tantrums from XH
D 9/15; NC forever on

You can't DR your way out of abuse.



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Cheese tasting?? Is that where the cheese is? Amsterdam??


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Hey V, thinking about you and wishing you are having lots of fun. Enjoy V, you deserve it.

XOXO
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I am glad you get to have another weekend of peace smile enjoy yourself!!


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Hi lovely V, just checking in to see how you are doing this weekend? Hope all is well, and peaceful for you...:-)


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We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
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