You said on my thread that you were worried H was coming back as things had not worked out with OW.
Can you explain a little Gg?
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No, I doubt his affair is over. H stated a few times, he will be coming back. He was coming back.
He beating the bushes for info re gg, from nosey neighbour I suspect. He wants to see gg is still where h left her. We all know that's not true.
After last weeks coffee it's looking far less likely I will ever be in the space for h to come back, I'm just not sure I can deal with his crapola.
It's far too emotionally draining, it's just too much work, and really I don't get my needs met. H wants to push back boundaries in my end and in his end there is only bounderies and punishments for me.
Even if x is only ever this last week of a couple of coffees and a few flirty texts, that's ok. He really nice, a gentle bloke who's very genuine and caring. I have really lept forward, mentally.
Rhc came in yesterday, he's looking better too! Think he's finaljy a making progress and it's very pleasing to see. I think the whole building me up by the whole banter and stuff with him has helped him no end.
Oh the testicle dude came in and now there is this whole game I make him blush and boy is that easy! He's doing well too, seems to have lept forward as well in the few weeks since the whole wedding party. Again I'm pleased he's a nice bloke delt a bad hand. (Bi polar x) I think playing a few light flirty games with him has given his confidence a huge boost.
S17 stil, quiet, world is normal again. The babies from last years crop of foals left yesterday as well. These last few weeks seem to be very long, or at least feel long with plenty happening.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
Yeah, he says he's coming back. Done it on when I started legal stettlement proceedings.
Yes, he thinks he's in control. No we know he's not.
Yes he thinks he can tell me what to and I will regardless of if is best for me.
When starting off, to keep if very friendly db style he thought that meant I would tolerate ow and his being with her wasn't going to affect our friendship/r.
Pre db at bd. He expected to tell me he shared all our r private details with her and he would not discuss anything to do with his a, how long etc. Just basic stuff. I did not want intimate details. In fact he stated it didn't happen after accidentally confessing.
Oh wel, today is Wednesday, and I have a Long week. Sigh.. Hump day with no hump. Lol seems fairy god mother has spread a coffee rumor about x, so been fending off fishing explications from those who think they should know. All for nice reasons to cheer you on, but I still need privacy for s17, I want to be able to be the one to tell him it things get that far untill then it's none of any one else's bees wax!
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
Well look at you. I'm away for a few days and look what happens
Seems like a good attitude about x. Nothing has to come if it but if your happy and respecting yourself then enjoy what there is without pressure or expectations. Go Gg
Need a better name than x though.
BRD = boss recommended date
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
Warm texting is good as long as there is no pressure/expectation on it.
I certainly can't speak for any bloke that isn't me but as I've said before the cultural expectation is that guys make all the moves and do all the asking (and its basically not fair but it is what it is) But that means at the blokes pace and comfort levels for progress and that has to balanced against not wanting to seem too keen.
Both mid 30s, 2 young kids BD 7sep14 XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1 D paperwork in progress
