Exactly, she told our mutual friend she knows I'm sleeping with, OM's ex....! I was like WHAT.... where in any universe does that make sense. Lol, talk about left field, and gross. I just have to keep doing me, and take care of myself. She can accuse and make assumptions all day long, everything comes out in the wash sooner or later.
Sometimes it doesn't matter if the WAS is lying or not because some friends will perpetrate like the lie is the truth. Depends on the group of people. SO yes. WAS could lie on you and you pay for some things you didn't even do.
Leave her to her projections. And keep her guessin'. I always celebrate just a little when they start showing their own jealousy and insecurities. It's sorta satisfying.
You're going to rock this, Rysin.
(Be sure not to leave your DB history on your computer while W is staying there. Is your phone password protected? In other words: CYA, bro. We don't want her seeing us! Lol.)
M: 40 H: 44 Married 14 years S11 & D6; D20 & D19 from previous M 2BDs/PAs, 8 years apart Piecing: April 2014
I have changed my google account P/W so she cannot snoop anymore. I also have hid all my stuff concerning the sitch and this site. And as far as leaving her guessing that is what i completely intend to do, let her be jealous over nothing, i am not going to feel bad about it. I am actually going to change all my passwords so that she can no longer access any of my things. the hardest one to prevent is the cell phone because we linked out accounts, because she got the better % discount when we were together. still debating whether or not to get my own phone service. Anyhow thank you all for the support and help.
Thank you again train for your insight. I hope that this sitch works in my favor. I will be on my A game day and night for the next week. What do you think about me making plans to go out one night and really get dressed up and looking nice while she is there with our friend. think that would be smart?
So this has not started out the way it should. Two nights straight W has come home at 11 pm and after 12am lastnight each time waking me up when u have to be up at 330 am for my school. So finally lastnight night after she pulled in I went down and sat on the stairs. When she tried to sneak in the front door I was sitting there. I said, "W I need you to know this is not a hotel where you came and go when you want, she said I can do what ever I want. My reply was "if you think you can do whatever you want then I don't think this situation is going to work this is still my house." she states "it's our house and if it wasnt for me you wouldn't have it either. I said you gave up the house when you left, and she actually turned to me and said I left not her. I realized it was going no where fast so I just said you nred to try and think about the other people you are affecting by your actions. And went to bed. I was so angry only got 3.5 hours of sleep and that's not good for my master fitness course where in exhausted daily. So how do I approach this thing, cause it is obvious she is not staying at my house to spend time with our friend. She is actually using it becuase she is out all night with OM doing acrobatics. Which makes zero sense why she doesn't stay with him. Ill admit I was super angry after being woke up two days straight. And I'm a super light sleeper and once up I struggle to sleep again.
